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I am a midlife woman, wife, and stay-at-home mother of 2 boys and 2 cats. I have a passion for helping other women feel fabulous in the midst of this crazy, beautiful life.
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What Is the Difference Between a Bathing Suit and a Swimsuit?
The bathing suit vs. swimsuit debate wastes more mental energy than deciding what to wear to the beach. Every summer, shoppers stress about using the “right” term while retailers randomly interchange them on the same website. Here’s the truth: there’s absolutely no difference. None. Zero. This confusion is purely a language thing, not a swimwear thing. The Simple Reality “Bathing suit” and “swimsuit” describe the exact same garments. Both terms cover everything from one-piece suits to tiny bikinis to men’s swim trunks. The materials used in all are identical: nylon, spandex, and polyester. The function for each type is similar as well from swimming to sunbathing to other water activities.…
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Living Room Table Makeover & Spread The Kindness Link Up On the Edge #766
I have been a painting fool lately, upgrading everything I can with a fresh coat of color, like my front door, my dining room table, a secondhand desk, repurposed dressers, and a bunch of other things I haven’t even shared with you yet, including this antique table. I bought this table at an estate sale back in 2011. It was actually two tables when I found it. It had been cut in half and mounted to the walls as two smaller two-legged end tables. I thought it was such a clever way to repurpose a table that I had to have them. I don’t remember what they cost but it…
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Upgrading a Vacation Home for Year-Round Living
More homeowners are turning their vacation properties into full-time residences. Whether it’s a decision sparked by remote work, early retirement, or just a desire for a slower pace, living year-round in a second home is becoming more common. While these homes may offer a beautiful setting and a relaxed lifestyle, they’re often built for short visits not daily life. Seasonal homes usually lack insulation, storage, and full-service systems that you rely on throughout the year. If you plan to make the shift, there’s more to think about than just moving your belongings. It takes a few smart updates to make your vacation home as comfortable and functional as your primary…
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Minimalist Home, Maximum Protection: Function-First Fixes That Matter
Tired of juggling endless home repairs, random upgrades, and visual clutter? You’re not alone. A lot of people are turning to a more minimalist approach at home—fewer things, fewer distractions, and fewer headaches. But that doesn’t mean you should skimp on home protection. If you’re living in a place like Huntsville, AL, where strong storms and sudden weather shifts are common, safety and durability matter just as much as clean design. Whether you’re downsizing your space or just simplifying your lifestyle, the best home upgrades are the ones that do more with less. Let’s talk about function-first fixes that keep your home protected and stress-free, without ruining your design goals.…
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The Thrifty Six: Bloom Where You are Planted
Jodie presented us with this month’s theme, Bloom Where You are Planted. But that doesn’t really work for me since I was planted in Pennsylvania but I am blooming in New York. I guess I am blooming where I have been transplanted! Lucky for my thrifty soul, Pennsylvania and New York are both homes to a plethora of amazing secondhand shops that tend to always be blooming with all sorts of gorgeous floral prints. I have always loved floral prints. The bigger, the bolder, the brighter, the more I am drawn to them. And thrift stores are generally abundant with blooming florals. In fact, I have so many different preloved…
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Doña Maclovia Zamora by Nani Chacon | Style Imitating Art
I am really excited to share this next artwork simply because I love it and I love the story behind it. Style Imitating Art Style Imitating Art is hosted by Salazar of 14 Shades of Grey, Shelbee of Shelbee on the Edge, and Marsha of Marsha in the Middle. Style Imitating Art challenges us to draw style inspiration from pieces of art. Every other Monday, one of the hosts, acting as presenter, selects an inspiration image that they will each post on their blogs. The following Monday, each host shares her art inspired outfit. Participants are invited to submit their art inspired outfits to the presenter by 10:00 p.m. EST on the Tuesday following…
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Adventures in Thrifting Part 19: Blue and White Cotton Dress & Spread The Kindness Link Up On the Edge #765
I went on a little thrifting adventure a few weeks ago in search of green dishes. After finishing my dining set makeover, I decided that I want to replace my current set of dishes with a mismatched set of secondhand dishes…all in some shade of green. It will take some time but I do enjoy the hunt so I don’t mind. I did buy a few green dishes to start my collection but I don’t plan on photographing them until my collection is complete. Regardless of what I’m looking for when I embark on a thrifting adventure, there are a few areas that I always check…the first being dresses. I…
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What to Pack for a Girls’ Night In
Whether it’s celebrating a major life event or simply unwinding after a long week, few things beat a girls’ night in. It’s a chance to let go of the outside world, relax, and enjoy some much-needed girl time. However, the quality of your time together greatly depends on your planning and preparation. Ensuring everyone has everything they need for the evening can be instrumental in creating a comfortable and fun gathering. As such, creating an ultimate list of what to pack for a girls’ night in is as important as the event itself. Girl Time Essentials Naturally, you need to bring the usual sleepover must-haves: your basic clothes and cosmetics.…
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From Drab to Dreamy: How Micro-Renovations Create Big Impact in Home Interiors
Transforming a home doesn’t always require tearing down walls or embarking on a full-scale renovation. Sometimes, the most powerful changes come from the smallest details—precisely the principle behind micro-renovations. These subtle, targeted updates provide an effective way to enhance the atmosphere, functionality, and visual appeal of interiors without draining resources or requiring relocation during a lengthy project. In places like Wichita, where homeowners often strike a balance between practicality and charm, micro-renovations thrive on the principle of strategic upgrades. Instead of complete overhauls, they focus on updating fixtures, refreshing surfaces, making slight modifications to layouts, and refining aesthetics to breathe new life into outdated or uninspired spaces. The result? A…
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The Good Buy/Good-Bye Book: Yellow
Yellow seems to be really having a moment right now. For me, at least. I am so drawn to this vibrant, cheerful color and I find myself adding more and more sunshine to my closet! Let’s see how everyone else is wearing yellow. Thanks so much to everyone who joined us this month! We appreciate you. The Good Buy/Good-Bye Book The Good Buy/Good-Bye Book is a monthly series hosted by Nancy of Nancy’s Fashion Style and myself. Every month, we invite you to share a photo or two of your Good (or Bad) Buy items that fit the stated theme. We ask that you also provide a short description explaining if the item you…
