On Beneficence & Link Up On the Edge #88
Many of you may already know that my website was hacked this week which resulted in my having to pull the entire site offline until the issue was resolved. Clearly, it has been resolved and I am back up and running as if nothing had ever happened. Except I probably have a few more gray hairs and I may have lost a few pounds from lack of food consumption during the incredibly stressful past few days. I want to properly thank all of the people who were involved in fixing the problem, but I am going to save that for my Tuesday #SpreadTheKindness Link Up…because it is a perfectly suited topic for that. Plus I really have to share this dress from Zaful. You know, blogger obligations. But in the midst of my obligations, I also want to share 11 inspirational quotes about beneficence. There is something so special and beautiful in helping others simply for the sake of helping them.
*This is a sponsored post. This dress was provided to me for the purposes of a blog post. As always, all thoughts and opinions are entirely my own.
*Dress: Drawstring Waist Striped Shirtdress c/o Zaful.
“You can have everything you want in life if you just help enough people get what they want in life.” –Zig Ziglar
“There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up.” -John Holmes
“When we give cheerfully and accept gratefully, everyone is blessed.” -Maya Angelou
“No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.” -Charles Dickens
“You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you.” -John Bunyan
“I don’t want to live in the kind of world where we don’t look out for each other. Not just the people that are close to us, but anybody who needs a helping hand. I can’t change the way anybody else thinks, or what they choose to do, but I can do my bit.” -Charles de Lint
“Doing nothing for others is the undoing of ourselves.” -Horace Mann
“Give freely to the world these gifts of love and compassion. Do not concern yourself with how much you receive in return, just know in your heart it will be returned.” -Steve Maraboli
“The next time you want to withhold your help, or your love, or your support for another for whatever the reason, ask yourself a simple question: do the reasons you want to withhold it reflect more on them or on you? And which reasons do you want defining you forevermore?” -Dan Pearce
“I’m starting to think this world is just a place for us to learn that we need each other more than we want to admit.” -Richelle E. Goodrich
“In helping others, we shall help ourselves, for whatever good we give out completes the circle and comes back to us.” -Flora Edwards
Without all of the wonderful people in my life, around me, supporting me, old and new, I could not, would not, be where I am right now…living a life more beautiful than I could have ever dreamed. Thank you.
And now the featured favorites from last week.
These three amazing blogger friends of mine teamed up for a series of collaborations featuring this magnificent purple paisley velvet pant suit. And I literally cannot get enough of it! If you need to find outfit inspiration, I encourage you to go check out all three of their blogs. Not only are they stylish, they are witty, brilliant, kind, insightful, and empowering women whom you need to know! So please go know them if you don’t already!
Sheela of Sheela Writes with her post, A Velvet Suit for Play & Other Things.
Jennie of A Pocketful of Polka Dots with her post, Velvet Suit for Play Three Ways.
Debbie of Fashion Fairy Dust with her post, Velvet Suit & Sneakers: Play Date.
Please share your stories with me how you have been unselfishly helped by others and how you have paid that kindness forward.
Keeping it on the edge,
Shelbee
Also, if you looking for inspiration for living your best life, the Spring issue of Resilientista Magazine has just been released and it is filled with so much goodness!
Linking up with these Fabulous Link Ups.
66 Comments
Maria Kelly
A wonderful set of quotes. All of them great to keep us going positively. You may have a few more grey hairs thanks to those hackers but you’ve come back strong lovely xx
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Maria, thanks so much! The hacking business definitely caused a lot of stress that I would not wish upon anyone. And I am overwhelmed by the amount of support I received from so many people in helping me to fix the issue…so gratitude is what I am feeling now rather than stress! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Kellyann Rohr
Oh Shelbee, I had no idea your site was hacked. How scary! I can only imagine the stress that brought. Love all of your quotes today and that dress is so pretty on you – love the softer colors and the snow looks like it’s melting – yay!!!
xo,
Kellyann
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Kellyann, thank you so much! Oh what a mess it was with this hacking business. I would not wish that on anyone! And while the snow is finally melting, it still looks like there is more in the forecast for us in April. I think we may never see Spring! But at least I have a working website now. Have the most wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Tamar Strauss-Benjamin
So sorry that happened!! Super cute look.
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Thanks, Tamar! Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Michele Morin
It’s so like you, Shelbee, to emerge on the other side of that hair raising experience with our blog sharing quotes that inspire and lift our hearts.
Blessings to you as you celebrate new life and resurrection this weekend.
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Michele, thank you so, so much for this beautiful comment! I literally am overwhelmed with gratitude by how many people stepped up to help me with this issue! I wish you a very blessed weekend as well, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Elizabeth Ramsey
Love this shirt dress with the cinched waist! Such a classic piece yet so fresh and spring like. Great quotes in this post as well. Happy Easter to you!
Elizabeth | nattygal.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Elizabeth, thank you so much! I am really happy with this dress and look forward to wearing it with sandals once it gets warmer. Have a wonderful weekend and a very Happy Easter!
xoxo
Shelbee
jodie filogomo
It’s so awful when that happens, Shelbee. In fact, I pay for 2 separate security programs for my blog because it was so frustrating when this happened to me!!
I hope you have a wonderful, Easter weekend!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jodie, thank you so much for sharing your experience. It was super stressful and annoying! The company I worked with is still monitoring my site for a few days and then they will let me know what securities I need in place. Thanks for stopping by. I hope you have a blessed weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Jennie
I am so glad to hear you were able to resolve your site issues. I know that can be incredibly frustrating. I will be looking forward to reading your post Tuesday to learn more about it. Very cute chambray shirtdress! I like how you styled it for cooler weather with the tall boots and socks. So many encouraging quotes! Thank you very much for featuring the three of us in our amazing velvet suits! xoxo
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Jennie, thanks so much! Yeah, that hacking business is not for the faint of heart, that’s for sure. On the verge of tears with a stress headache for days…lots of wine consumed…and so many amazing people helping me out…and here I am on the other side overwhelmed with gratitude! And that suit is just so magical that I had to feature it! It’s like The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants on the form of luxurious purple paisley velvet! Have a fabulous weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
jacqui
Great to see you in the sunshine Shelbee, hope the weather has greatly improved for you, It sure looks like it has. I’m liking your chambray shirt dress. Need to get mine out again, just need the warmer weather here now. x Jacqui Mummabstylish
Hope you’ll join me on the linkup Hun. #chicandstylish #linkup
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jacqui, thanks so much! I do love this dress and look forward to wearing it with bare legs and sandals, but we will be in boot weather for at least another month! Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Deborah Stinedurf
Your blog was hacked? Gahhh….what a freakin’ nightmare! I’m glad you got it sorted out. Thank you for the shout out my friend! That suit truly is a thing of beauty…
Debbie
http://www.fashionfairydust.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Debbie, thanks so much! And yes, it was a complete nightmare but thankfully I had some amazing IT people on my side…stay tuned for more on that next week. And that suit is freaking magical! Have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Rachael Thomas
Oh no! I’m sorry you got hacked. This dress looks beautiful on you, and it’s such a perfect spring dress. I love reading these quotes!
Rachael
http://www.threadsforthomasblog.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Rachael, thanks so much! What a time I had with this hacking business. So annoying! I am glad you enjoyed my choice of quotes. Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Tucker
Fabulous look Shelbee! I can’t wait to hear about your hacking! My gosh that would be so stressful! I never thought about someone hacking my whole blog. Ugh! Another thing to worry about! Happy Friday beautiful!
Cheryl
http://www.northwestmountainliving.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Cheryl, thanks so much! Oh, it is quite a story indeed. And stressful beyond belief. I consumed a lot of wine this week, that’s for sure! Hahaha. Have a lovely weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Nicole at High Latitude Style
Great look. You look really comfortable, but casually posh. Thanks for hosting the party.
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Thanks so much, Nicole! Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Maureen
Love your set of quotes! It serves as a good reminder for all of us and I am so glad to hear that your website is back up and working beautifully! I hope this weekend you can get a peace of mind that your website is in good hands and that you can breathe again. I agree with you though. Without the help from others, life would be different and it wouldn’t be that much fun. After all, if we can’t share and help others then what is it all for? Your shirt dress is such a beautiful blue! I saw it and definitely thought of the warming weather coming. I love the knee high socks peaking out from your gorgeous taupe boots! A very pretty outfit and I love this look on you. Happy Friday and wishing you a fabulous Easter weekend!
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Maureen, thank you so much for yet another wonderful and inspiring comment! You are so beautiful, my friend! Life really is so much more enriched when we help others and allow others to help us. We are all so interconnected and it is an amazing and rewarding way to exist. I hope you have a blessed weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Nancy Baten
Damn. I’ve been looking all afternoon for a dress like that in the city!
Happy Easter love!
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Zaful, my friend! Zaful has it! I was actually hesitant about this dress for some reason, but I am really happy with it! I love the fabric and the fit! I hope you find the perfect on for you. Have a great weekend, Nancy!
xoxo
Shelbee
Suzanne
Shelbee! I am so sorry to hear you got hacked…every bloggers worst nightmare! Happy to see you are back on track but I can’t imagine the stress. Your dress is lovely and I love how you styled it with tall boots for a great transitional look! Happy Easter and I hope you get a chance to unwind a bit!
XOXO
Suzanne
http://www.AskSuzanneBell.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Suzanne, thank you so much! Oh my word, the stress was unbelievable. I thought I was going to lose 3 years worth of content, too, which nearly had me in tears! But thankfully I found some amazing IT people who fixed it quickly with everything in tact. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick weseman
Those quotes are so very perfect for today. And you look nice. Thanks for sharing each and every one of them. Thanks for hosting and I hope that you and your family have a lovely Easter.
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Patrick, thank you so much! I am glad that you enjoyed them. Happy Easter to you as well!
xoxo
Shelbee
Jessica
I’m glad you got the site working again! I was worried! That’s so stressful though….
~Jessica
Jeans and a Teacup
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jessica, thanks so much! It was incredibly stressful and ever so annoying! Thankfully, I found some amazing IT folks who fixed it quickly. Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Tina von Tinaspinkfriday
Shelbee I love this dress. You look fabulous!
Happy easter 🙂
XO Tina
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Thanks so much, Tina! Happy Easter to you as well!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lazy Daisy Jones
Shelbee, how awful for you and how amazing that you are back up and running!
Do you know what happened, please do write a post about what you learned!
I am also loving the quotes, food for thought…
sending love
Ashley xx
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Ashley, thanks so much! It was a pretty stressful experience, for sure. I will writing about it all for my post on Tuesday! Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Shops
Yay, I’m glad your site is back up so you can show us this great outfit! The dress looks so flattering yet comfy, and I love how you’ve styled it with your boots!
Cheryl Shops | http://www.cherylshops.net
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Cheryl, thanks so much! I am really pleased with this dress and look forward to wearing it with sandals if it would ever get warm enough! Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Suzanne Smith
You know I always love your blog! These quotes are so perfect and timely for every day! You know that I consider you a friend and would do anything in the world for you! I’m so happy to have met you virtually and in person! Also, a good shirtdress is the best! Have a great weekend!
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Suzanne, you are amazing! I am so glad that I got to meet you in real life, too. With you in my corner, I just feel that much more empowered in this crazy world! I would do anything for you as well because that is just the way we roll! Love you!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lisa Richardson
Thanks for the great inspirational quotes, Shelbee. That dress looks like it could be a real workhorse this spring. I think you could do so much with it. I would have never thought to pair it with the boots, but I adore the look. Happy Saturday!! XO
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Lisa, thanks so much! I am really excited for this dress in the Spring. And the boots were actually my husband’s recommendation because I was at a complete loss of which direction to go for shoes. I was wanting sandals but it is just still way too cold! I hope you are having a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Rania Abdulla
I am sorry to hear about your website trouble and glad it’s all ok. Your dress looks awesome and the quote I like the best is the one about how we need each other. We don’t know it until we know it.
https://the-wardrobe-stylist.com/2018/03/18/diet-exercise-plan/
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Rania, thank you so much! I think that is my favorite quote, too, out of all of them. And I love your take on it…we don’t know it until we know it! So true!
xoxo
Shelbee
Marilee Gramith
The pale blue shirt dress is so light and pretty with those cool grey boots. I’m liking the little knee/ thigh high stockings beneath the boots a lot. Sexy without trying for it! You look anxious for Spring Shelbee!
Your philosophical views her are simple but absolutely within our control. I try to practice random acts of kindness as often as I can.
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Jude, thank you! I have to admit…I was feeling kind of sexy in this outfit…without even trying! My husband seemed to like it a lot, too, which is always a good thing! I am so anxious for Spring. And yesterday it was finally nice enough that the kids could be outside for most of the day. Albeit, they got quite muddy, but fresh air is really good for the soul! As are random acts of kindness! I hope you are having a lovely weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Shopdealman
This dress is amazing on you, Shelbeeon!!
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Thanks so much! Have a great day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura || Walking in Memphis in High Heels
I remember coming to your site and couldn’t believe what had happened! I am so glad it is all fixed. That dress /boot combination for the Spring and transition time !
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Laura, thanks so much! I am so ready for Spring but it is still cold! I am working on a post now about my hacker issue! Stop back tomorrow to see it and link up.
xoxo
Shelbee
Gigi Kiersten
I’m so happy that your blog is back up! I guess is the curse of every popular blogger to be hacked at least once. Well, at least you got all your stuff backed up and was able to put it back intact. I had to start over at least three times and it was a nightmare! However, I’m so glad that you’re back. As for your outfit, I’m loving this shirt dress from Zaful. It reminds me of Spring, without you having to freeze your butt up there.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Gigi, thanks so much! And that is terrible that you had to start over 3 times. What a nightmare! I had two issues in the past where my blog went blank from plugins. Fortunately, the help desk was able to resolve both of those issues. And each time it happened, Mercury was in retrograde!
xoxo
Shelbee
Anna at Muttonstyle
Really cute dress Shelbee. You clearly enjoyed modelling it. I hope you’ll join my new linkup venture with Bojana.
http://www.muttonstyle.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Anna, thanks so much! I will definitely join your link up and I will add it to my Link Ups page as well! Thanks for letting me know.
xoxo
Shelbee
Edwige
You look super fabulous! I love that shirt dress! So classy and beautiful! Love the boots too!
Edwige | http://www.hypnozglam.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Edwige! Now if only it would get warmer, I could really show off some Spring outfits!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lorena
Oh wow Michelle, I had totally forgotten how fab grey and light blue look together, nicely worn !
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Thanks so much, Lorena! My husband recommended the pairing and I was very happy with it!
xoxo
Shelbee
Marianna Lucas
Love the sweater with the dress! It definitely added a nice touch!
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Thank you so much, Marianna! It was an extra layer of warmth, too, because it is still really cold around here!
xoxo
Shelbee
Ada
First of all you look so cute in that shirt-dress and those long socks were a nice touch plus kept you warm. All these sayings were perfect for today and any day, really. I have heard and 100% believe in a couple of them, in particular. I am so glad your website is back and running dear Shel. We all should do something nice and kind everyday and any day for everyone and anyone. This post reminded me a little on my note/post on Autism I posted on my facebook, yesterday. =)
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Ada, thanks so much for your kind words, always! Kindness really is contagious and I truly believe that if you put it out into the world, it will come back to you tenfold. I will be over to check out your new post, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Donna Reidland
Great boots and I love the quotes!
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Thanks so much, Donna! Have a great day!
xoxo
Shelbee