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What to Wear to a Fall Wedding & Link Up

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kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge

My dear friend Ada of Elegance and Mommyhood recently invited a lovely group of bloggers to join her for a collaboration featuring What to Wear to a Fall Wedding.

Fall has always been my favorite season for just about everything including weddings. But all weddings and other celebrations look so very different this year compared to what we know. Whether it is a super small gathering or a ceremony shared through Zoom, if you have been invited to a wedding this fall, you still want to dress your best to celebrate this momentous occasion in the lives of your friends or family members.

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kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge

I have not been invited to any weddings at all recently but a wedding style prompt is always fun. It gives me a reason to get dressed up during a time when reasons to dress up are nearly nonexistent.

So what would I wear to a fall wedding? I suppose it all depends on the dress code as suggested by the bride and groom. I guess what I had in mind when styling my outfit is either a small, casual gathering for a backyard ceremony or tuning in from my living room on Zoom to a small, casual backyard wedding.

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kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge

After styling my red kimono as a dress back in July, I knew I wanted to try that same styling trick with my favorite green kimono. But the green kimono is a bit different and doesn’t have the inside robe ties that help to keep it closed. So I layered a black lace trimmed slip dress underneath in the event of a wardrobe mishap and secured my kimono with a leather obi belt.

While were taking photos, I decided to see what it all looked like with the kimono left open. I actually think I like this green kimono better as a kimono than as a dress. The opposite is true of my red floral kimono. It is way better as a dress because of the style of the belt and ties.

kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge

For my accessories, I chose my mustard furry clutch because I love the way it plays with the colors of the bird feathers on my kimono. I actually first tried the kimono over a mustard velvet swing dress, but the style of dress just wasn’t working for me.

I opted for gold jewelry because it works better than silver with the mustard yellow accents. Plus I had to wear my “Love” necklace from Queen Bitter. It is a wedding after all and weddings are all about the love. Black lace stockings and sky high strappy black heels complete the look (although if I were actually attending a backyard wedding, I would probably choose different shoes). And of course, I always like to wear chopsticks in my hair when I wear kimonos. They just seem to suit the whole vibe.

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kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge
kimono, green kimono, kimono as a dress, lbd, slip dress, fall wedding outfit, lace stockings, fashion over 40, Shelbee on the Edge

Now let’s have a look at all of the other fabulous fall wedding styles.

WHAT  TO  WEAR  TO  A  FALL  WEDDING.
EMMA (Style Splash): “I’ve had this dress for years and never had the occasion to wear it. The fabric is light but the style provides plenty of coverage, making it ideal for fall. I’ve picked out the mustard in the snake print pattern with my shoes and bag, and highlighted the purple with my jewellery.”

ADA (Elegance and Mommyhood): “This beautiful silk jacquard black+silver rose dress with the bold ruffled hemline is perfect for a Fall Wedding – if I were to attend one. The herringbone black tights bring texture, interest and warmth to this look. And that fabulous fuzzy grey clutch with all the fraying and tassels brings more depth. With the right makeup and of course some heels in addition to fun statement earrings and some sparkly bracelets, this look would definitely be an elegant option to attend a wedding this time of year. Moto jacket is optional!”

AMBER (Avec Amber): 2020 has certainly thrown us all a number of curveballs, with many celebrations including weddings or wedding receptions being postponed until we can safely celebrate again. This jumpsuit is a piece that I purchased last year for a girls’ trip to Napa, one that I planned to wear to one of this year’s wedding celebrations. Rest assured I will be saving it for one of those rescheduled weddings next year, and I hope that everyone stays healthy and safe during this time!”

DARLENE (Aquamarina Style): Take that basic slip dress you wore in the summer up a notch for a fall wedding or any dressy event. Adding a satin boyfriend blazer gives the dress a whole new look! Just add neutral pumps and some bling and you are ready to party!”

JULIE (Fashion Trends and Friends):I love attending weddings and planning what I’ll wear for the event!  This fall we were supposed to have two weddings to attend, which I was really looking forward to as well as some long weekend getaways.  One in September (my niece) in Oklahoma and one in October (our friend’s daughter) in Wisconsin. Sadly, both had to cancel their plans and simplify their attendance list.  I believe the type of wedding and the venue dictate what is appropriate to be worn.  I tend to be overly fancy; and for me a wedding is a perfect opportunity to pull out all of my sequins and rhinestones.  This is the look I would have worn to the wedding in Milwaukee, Wisc.”

BOJANA (Bo’s Bodacious Blog):This little, moody floral dress is the perfect addition to your fall closet.  You can take it from work, to a dinner date, to a fall wedding without missing a beat.  The dress has it all, flouncy sleeves, ruffled skirt, a tie belt to define your waist and shape, as well as a deep v neckline for a little hint of sexy.  Pair it up with heels, a little sparkle, and a trusted clutch and you are wedding ready without breaking the bank.   Hop on over to the blog to see full details on how to style this dress for a night of dancing and celebrating. “

SHELBEE (Shelbee on the Edge): “I haven’t worn my favorite green kimono in a few years and have been wanting to style it as a dress. So I layered a black lace trimmed slip dress over some lacy stockings and sassy high heels and added my green kimono with a leather obi belt. Then I ditched the belt and showed off the slip dress. I chose my furry yellow bag because I love the way it played with the bright colors in the kimono. Of course, my “Love” choker is a must for any wedding outfit!”

LAURA (I Do deClaire):Although most weddings are put on hold right now (thanks a lot ‘rona), this collaboration was a fun reason to dress up for a short time anyway! I’ve long said that skirts can be dressy enough for weddings and by pairing this dark floral maxi with a lace top and belting it- it almost passes for a dress! “






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Outfit Details: Kimono-Forever 21 / Clutch, Slipdress, Stockings, and Earrings-Target / Shoes-Payless / Necklace-Queen Bitter / Hair Sticks-Amazon

I am a midlife woman, wife, and stay-at-home mother of 2 boys and 2 cats. I have a passion for helping other women feel fabulous in the midst of this crazy, beautiful life.

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