Wednesday’s Quote of the Week: The Importance of You
In yesterday’s post, I referenced the documentary about Fred Rogers and shared a quote by producer-director Morgan Neville on radical kindness. Discussing Fred Rogers inspired me to share some of his best quotes for a Quote of the Week post. I haven’t done one of these quote posts since my wedding anniversary in January and I still had some photos left featuring the same outfit from yesterday’s post as well. So here they are…more outfit photos and some of my favorite Fred Rogers quotes.
“If you could only sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to the people you may never even dream of.”
Fred Rogers
“No one else can live the life you live. And even though no human being is perfect, we always have the chance to bring what’s unique about us to live in a redeeming way.”
Fred Rogers
“We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It’s easy to say, ‘It’s not my child, not my community, not my world, not my problem.’ Then there are those who see the need and respond. I consider those people my heroes.”
Fred Rogers
“There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.”
Fred Rogers
“There is no normal life that is free of pain. It’s the very wrestling with our problems that can be the impetus for our growth.”
Fred Rogers
“There’s no ‘should’ or ‘should not’ when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control. When we can believe that, we may find it easier to make constructive choices about what to do with those feelings.”
Fred Rogers
“Confronting our feelings and giving them appropriate expression always takes strength, not weakness. It takes strength to acknowledge our anger, and sometimes more strength yet to curb the aggressive urges anger may bring and to channel them into nonviolent outlets. It takes strength to face our sadness and to grieve and to let our grief and our anger flow in tears when they need to. It takes strength to talk about our feelings and to reach out for help and comfort when we need it.”
Fred Rogers
“Love isn’t a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.”
Fred Rogers
“As human beings, our job in life is to help people realize how rare and valuable each one of us really is, that each of us has something that no one else has–or ever will have–something inside that is unique to all time. It’s our job to encourage each other to discover that uniqueness and to provide ways of developing its expression.”
Fred Rogers
“Most of us, I believe, admire strength. It’s something we tend to respect in others, desire for ourselves, and wish for our children. Sometimes, though, I wonder if we confuse strength and other words–like aggression and even violence. Real strength is neither male nor female; but is, quite simply, one of the finest characteristics that any human being can possess.”
Fred Rogers
“There are three ways to ultimate success:
Fred Rogers
The first way is to be kind.
The second way is to be kind.
The third way is to be kind.”
Which is your favorite Fred Rogers Quote? And have you seen the documentary Won’t You Be My Neighbor? I need to add that to my watchlist for this coming weekend.
And in the spirit of Fred Rogers, I want to take this opportunity to introduce you to one of the fabulous ladies in our blogging community who has fallen on some tough times. She needs some help…Trina of Tipsy Heelz has supported my blog and my mission from very early on in my blogging journey. She is so kind and empowering and rocks some sassy fashions, too! If you are not familiar with her or her blog, please acquaint yourself with how lovely she is! If you are interested in supporting her as she has supported so many women in her life, there are two ways you can do it. She just launched a beautiful new eyeshadow line called Eye Shadow Eyez. There are 4 different beautifully bold color palettes available. By supporting her business, you are, of course, supporting her and her dream. You can read her story and can also help her through her GoFundMe Fundraiser. And if you can doing nothing else, send prayers and positive energy out for Trina. It only takes a moment to send love and kindness out into the universe.
Keeping it on the edge,
Shelbee
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36 Comments
Tamar Strauss-Benjamin
Mr. Rogers has such a special place in my heart!
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He was an amazing man, for sure, Tamar! And I remember your special connection!
xoxo
Shelbee
Trina Morgan
Thank you so much Shelby! and I love those quotes it really made me feel better. I’m not a woman of many words, but I truly thank you for helping me and I’m not ashamed to say what is going on in my life. We as women should be by each others side to comfort, love and encourage because we need it when we are also down. Any help would be so appreciated prayers ect.. Thank you again so much! 🙂 Bless you 🙂
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Trina, I am glad that I could do something even if it is just spreading the word. I am glad that I have created a space that is safe to share our stories even when we are feeling down. And I am glad that I have a forum where I can share these things as well. Hang in there, my friend. We find our greatest strengths in our weakest moments.
xoxo
Shelbee
Trina Morgan
Thank you again! I really appreciate it and I’m going to be strong. I’m going to better myself and get the help I need. With love Trina 🙂 :):)
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Love you, my friend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Trina Morgan
I love you too! <3
jodie filogomo
You are always the best and supportive friend, Shelbee. That’s why we all love you!!
I’ll have to check out that eyeshadow for sure.
And quotes are my jam totally. Especially that one from Mr. Rogers. I never watched his show,but we did see the documentary, and loved it. I think there’s another movie coming out soon about him.
XOXO
Jodie
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Thank you so much, Jodie! I think I am definitely going to try some of Trina’s new eyeshadow line. I just have to decide which color palette! And I really, really need to watch the Fred Rogers documentary. Such an inspiring man. I want to leave that same kind of legacy…radical kindness!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kimberly Malkiewicz
I didn’t realize Mr. Rogers had so many great quotes out there. I think my favorite is about strength. True strength doesn’t need to beat it’s chest. I’m loving the chippy wall you’re standing in front of!
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Thanks, Kim! I didn’t realize all the fabulous quotes by Fred Rogers either until I looked it up for this post! What a pleasant surprise to find so many beautiful gems!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick Weseman
He was a such a great man and I feel honored that I was a little kid when he was on. Today’s kids are missing out. Thanks for sharing this.
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Cheers to that, Patrick! Thanks for stopping by and have a fantastic day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Liz
That man is a legend! Love these words of wisdom. Can’t pick a favorite because I feel a connection to all of them on a really deep level. This is exactly what I needed to hear today 🙂 Thank you for sharing these, Shelbee!
Lizzie
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Liz, thanks so much for reading. I am so glad that I shared them at a time when you needed to read them! I hope things are looking up for you, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Ruth Josey
What wonderful quotes from a wonderful, kind and gentle man! Thanks for sharing those! And I love your look with the starry skirt and the hot pink gloves and my favorite topper (though not suitable for that snow all over the place) is the one with the 3/4 flared sleeves! I’m heading over to check out the link to the eyeshadow and the blog right now 🙂
Ruth
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Ruth, thank you so very much! There is always so much snow here that I usually hit a point sometime mid-Winter when I just start wearing whatever I want regardless of the snow! Hopefully, Spring arrives soon!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
That Mr. Rodgers was so wise. I loved his neighborhood! 🙂
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I absolutely agree, Laurie!
xoxo
Shelbee
Maria | passion fruit, paws and peonies
There’s so many great quotes here Shelbee. I’m interested in this quote: “There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.” Because it’s something that holds me back – I’m an over thinker and after I’ve been social I worry about what I said or didn’t say, how it might have come across etc. I want to say “I come with kindness but I’m also dealing with other things right now’. But you can’t really start with that can you?! xx
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Maria, thank you so much for sharing this comment! And I think, depending on the audience, perhaps opening with a statement like “I come with kindness but I’m also dealing with other things right now” may actually be a great way to open! All people are vulnerable and yet we all try to hide it. The ones who can be open with their vulnerabilities are usually met with respect and adoration. Maybe try it. See what happens! Keep me posted.
xoxo
Shelbee
Jacqui Berry
Such a lovely and true statement Shelbee, thanks for sharing it today. Jacqui Mummabstylish
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Thank you for reading today, Jacqui!
xoxo
Shelbee
Gigi Kiersten
This is such a luxe look, Shelbee! I really love that fur coat. It’s so pretty and I hope it’s keeping you warm amongst all that snow!
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Thank you, Gigi! It is the warmest coat ever…a Christmas gift from my husband and probably my most favorite gift ever!
xoxo
Shelbee
Angie
Hi, Shelbee
I just had to say I am in love with this outfit! I keep coming back here to look at it. Lol!
Angie, http://www.yourtrueselfblog.com
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Oh my goodness, Angie! Thank you so much! This made me giggle and feel so proud. I hope you have a fantastic week ahead!
xoxo
Shelbee
Anna Shirley
Such a nice quotes. It is so nice that you are helping. We, women, should support each other. Thank you to share this post with My Red Carpet.
Anna
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Thanks so much, Anna! I agree that life is so much better when everyone supports and uplifts each other rather than trying to knock one another down. Have a great week!
xoxo
Shelbee
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Thanks so much!
LORENA
You courageous woman ! Just by looking at these pictures I can almost feel the chill. But, let me tell you: totally worth it, you are rocking it.
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Lorena, thanks so much! It is so cold here still, I have no choice! Ha.
xoxo
Shelbee
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ratnamurti
Amazing quotes, Shelbee. Thanks for letting us know about your friend xxxxx
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Thank you, Ratnamurti. I really appreciate that.
xoxo
Shelbee