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The Thrifty Six Celebrate Absurdity Day

It was my turn to choose this month’s Thrifty Six theme and when I realized that our scheduled post date fell on National Absurdity Day, I jumped on the opportunity to share some of our most absurd thrifted finds. The Absurdist Movement began in the post-World War II era when nuclear bombs and concentration camps were tremendous clouds of darkness still hanging over humanity. In connection with existential and nihilistic philosophies, absurdists believe that while human tragedies may have some undisclosed meaning, we will likely never know what that meaning is. Therefore, they choose to construct absurd meanings for things that happen and things that humans do. Human nature is surely the most absurd I have ever witnessed!

National Absurdity Day has become a day to celebrate all things absurd. If philosophical discussions about absurdity are not really your thing, then you can celebrate this silly holiday just by being absurd yourself for a day. I don’t know how many people actually celebrate this weird holiday, but there are many things you can do to honor the ridiculous. You can dress up in a whacky outfit, make an interesting meal of odd food combinations, read a funny book, play a stupid game, or watch an insane movie. And if you are really in a celebratory mood, you could throw an Absurdity Day party! But not many people will attend a party on a random November Monday. Instead, we are having a little blog party to celebrate the absurd. Y’all are invited to join us!

For Absurdity Day, the Thrifty Six challenge was to style something preloved that falls into the category of the absurd. According to Merriam-Webster, the word absurd means “ridiculously unreasonable, unsound, or incongruous; extremely silly or ridiculous; having no rational or orderly relationship to human life; meaningless; lacking order or value.”

The word stresses a lack of logical sense or harmonious agreement, implying a collection of things that simply do not fit together. Synonyms for absurd include words like bizarre, insane, ridiculous, nonsensical, incredible, odd, eccentric, quirky, weird, crazy, strange, preposterous, fantastical, peculiar, whacky, kooky, wild, ludicrous, and outlandish. All words that have been used to describe me and my personal style at some point in time over the last four plus decades that I have been dressing myself in absurd ways.

I know this particular outfit does not appear nearly as absurd and ridiculous as some of my more colorful outfits over the years. For example, check out this whacky outfit that I shared for Absurdity Day 2020. But I really wanted/needed to style this weird gray turtleneck sweater thingy that has no bodice. I think it fits the Merriam-Webster definition of absurd perfectly. This garment really has no rational or sound relationship to human life or human needs. There are so many other garments in the world of fashion and textiles that would serve me better in keeping my neck and arms warm. Like a scarf or perhaps an actual sweater with a body! I don’t even know what you call this thing. Jodie suggested that it perhaps is a shrug but I thought shrugs at least covered your bosom area. But I could absolutely be incorrect in my interpretation.

When I purchased this piece last year, I was drawn to its uniqueness but baffled on how to wear the thing. I bought it because I was intrigued and then it sat in a drawer for over a year until now. At first, I pictured it layered on top of a sleeveless maxi dress. I thought it would be a brilliant way to transition summer sundresses into the cooler seasons. Ha. I was so wrong!

I first tried it with this preloved white sundress and quickly realized there is no body coverage under the arms or over the back so I was freezing! And it looked pretty stupid over that dress, too. Actually, that might have worked better for this absurdity theme. But really, it was beyond absurd and crossed the line into the category of the hideous and awful!

Back to the closet I went to find a different preloved dress to wear with this whacky turtleneck thingy. I ultimately settled on this preloved Zara dress that I shared in a previous Thrifty Six post last year featuring Autumn Outerwear. Actually, I think I may have purchased this dress on the same thrifting adventure that I purchased the shrug thing. I was much warmer and it looked much better with the long sleeved dress. Finally, I accessorized with my brown thrifted cowgirl boots, a preloved wooden zebra necklace, an old black floppy felt hat, wooden earrings, and my very special Shelbee Mala from Zen Spirit Malas.

Again, I didn’t feel like this outfit was as absurd as some of my other more colorful ensembles, but I really liked the end result. I felt very much in tune with my bohemian soul wearing this mostly thrifted concoction of unique and interesting things.

Now let’s check out how my thrifty friends are celebrating and styling the absurd.

The Thrifty Six is a group of international fashion influencers who meet once a month in our little space on the internet to share our thrifty outfits. On the third Monday of every month, we will all share an outfit based on a theme that features preloved wardrobe pieces. Shopping and reselling preloved clothing is so much better for the environment and you can find some of the best fashions in thrift or charity shops. The Thrifty Six are here to inspire you to shop second hand! 

The Thrifters:

Emma of Style Splash
Style Splash
“There’s a lot in my wardrobe that could be considered absurd, so when Shelbee chose Absurdity Day as our theme this month, it was a case of choosing a main focal point so as not to look completely ridiculous! (Some may think I do anyway!) As the weather is atrocious here I decided to start with these boots by Irregular Choice which I bought on eBay. I teamed them with pink skinny jeans and a vintage shirt. I added a green coat and vintage hat (both from eBay) and finished with a pink bag.”
-Emma
Grace of Graceful Rags
Graceful Rags
“I don’t have any one piece in my closet that’s particularly absurd, so I made it my mission to put together several thrifted items in the hopes that the overall ensemble would satisfy this month’s theme. I think I succeeded with this teal monochrome look! Where would I actually wear it? No idea, but boy did I feel fabulous (and appropriately absurd) while taking these photos. The faux fur jacket and velour jumpsuit were both thrifted while I was studying abroad in Scotland, and I topped the look off with a fabulous green heart statement necklace that my parents bought secondhand for me for my birthday.”
-Grace
Jane of Preloved-Vintage-Handmade
Preloved-Vintage-Handmade
“Absurdity Day is November’s T6 theme and what’s more absurd than pink and green faux fur!
There’s a trend this season for brightly coloured fluffy coats so when I saw this one, I thought I’d grab myself a piece of the action…
Not only are the colours totally outrageous, it’s got massive hearts all over it; definitely not for the fainthearted!
It goes with nothing, denim is the only thing I can bear it with apart from this Kelly green pashmina which also goes with nothing!
It’s a strong look, not sure it’s my look, I’m calling it ‘fashion through the prism of absurdity’…”
-Jane
Jodie of Jodie’s Touch of Style
Jodie's Touch of Style
“I concentrated on unusual items, and this chartreuse-colored trench dress that I found off of Poshmark is one that I struggled with when I first received it. It didn’t hang right and was totally wonky. I almost gave up and purged it, but after a bunch of changes to it, I wore it as a duster in the past and this time as a dress. I customized the boots too by using some shoe polish to make the darker blocks and then I added a dress extender to the look.
Plus, I handknit the purse!!”
-Jodie
Nancy of Nancy’s Fashion Style
Nancy's Fashion Style
“I don’t like absurdities in fashion. Just like I don’t like funny clothes. Like funny socks etc. Terrible. (Although I do buy them for Gerben, lol.) So I interpret this theme in my own way. Namely with this absurdly cheap and perfect coat. From Vinted. I love this coat! When I bought it it was as good as new. And for an absurd bargain price. The size is perfect, it doesn’t wrinkle at all and I think it’s totally cool! Everything about this coat is perfect. The pockets close with a button, it has shoulder pockets, the belt has a buckle, it’s double breasted. Everything I want from a coat! It’s totally absurd!”
-Nancy
And Me!
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“For Absurdity Day, I have finally styled this strange sweater turtleneck with sleeves. I am not sure what this thing is even called. I guess it’s kind of like a dickey but not in any traditional sense of a dickey. It is just a turtleneck with sleeves. No bodice. A dickey is just the bodice, I think. So it’s the opposite of a dickey. A yekcid? Whatever it is, I find it rather absurd. It is by Zara and I found it for a few dollars at my local thrift shop last year. I thought it was so weird that I just had to have it. But then I never took the time to figure out how the heck you wear it. I layered it over another thrifted Zara piece, not a very absurd dress, but the print is a little bit out there. My wooden zebra necklace and cowgirl boots were also preloved. And I was absurdly pleased with how this outfit turned out!”
-Shelbee

How will you celebrate the absurd today?

Keeping it on the edge,

Shelbee

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Outfit Details: Dress and Sweater Thingy-Thrifted (Zara) / Boots-Thrifted (Dan Post) / Hat-Kohl’s / Earrings-Cato / Zebra Necklace-Thrifted / Mala Beads-Zen Spirit Malas

I am a midlife woman, wife, and stay-at-home mother of 2 boys and 2 cats. I have a passion for helping other women feel fabulous in the midst of this crazy, beautiful life.

10 Comments

  • Nancy

    I think I must be really absurd as I love all the outfits and don’t think any of them is absurd! I loved this theme a lot. And your dress is super! That’s a great print and color combination!

  • jodie filogomo

    I have a shrug very similar but it’s a tad longer in front and back. It came with a matching sweater tank top which is how I’ ‘m wearing it today after being inspired by your outfit.
    Your prompt for the month was so creative (just like you) and I love how it makes us think,
    XOOX
    Jodie

    • shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com

      Awww, thanks so much, Jodie! I wonder if this one had a matching tank top at one point??? I have to find some other tighter fitting things to wear under this. I really do like it. And it’s super soft! This was a really fun theme and I absolutely love how everyone interpreted it!

      xoxo
      Shelbee

  • Marsha Banks

    I haven’t ever heard of this day. I wish I’d read your post earlier in the day because I would have spent it differently, I think!

    I can see where your turtleneck thingy is a bit of a challenge, yet I think you used it perfectly. I absolutely love this outfit, Shelbee! It’s so chic and yet bohemian. It’s probably you that brings the bohemian spirit to it, though. You are so very talented at finding just the right thing for every challenge!

    Have a wonderful week!

    https://marshainthemiddle.com/

    • shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com

      Thanks so much, Marsha! This turtleneck thingy is really soft and cozy despite it only having sleeves! I hope I can find more things to wear it with. You should mark your calendar for next year’s Absurdity Day! It happens every year on November 20 and I think it is a worthy holiday to celebrate annually.

      xoxo
      Shelbee

    • shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com

      Thanks, Emma! I had only learned of Absurdity Day a few years back when I chose it as a theme for my Your Own Twist challenge. And now I really love this silly holiday and want to celebrate it every year! Maybe we should do an annual November post for The Thrifty Six where we share our most absurd thrifty finds from the year. That might be really fun!

      xoxo
      Shelbee

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