Love Junkie & #SpreadTheKindness Link Up #115

March 26, 2019 / 47 Comments
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I admit it. I am a bit of a love junkie. A joy addict. A die hard enthusiast for all the good feels. The world’s greatest fan of people and what makes them tick. Every day brings me new opportunities to make connections with new people who fuel my fire and feed my soul. New chances to fall in love with the amazing energy that others put out into the world. With approximately seven and a half billion people in the world and the extensive reach provided by technology and social media, the chances of making a kindred connection with a stranger whom I may not otherwise have ever met have become increasingly so much better in this generation. And I couldn’t be more grateful.

Scarf: Kohl’s (Old)
Lace Bomber Jacket: Target (Old)

Granted, face to face meetings with new people are always fantastic. And working where I do, I encounter some of the most fascinating people who simply walk into the consignment shop to browse. Conversations begin with a friendly greeting and so very often end up in the deepest and most meaningful talks I have ever had. I have made quite a few really great friends just because they walked through that door.

Coat: Solitary Consignment
Pants: Solitary Consignment

I used to make friends in bars. Back in my 20’s when I was recently divorced and lived on my own for the very first time. In a town where I knew no one. So I would walk down the street every night to the local pub for dinner and a drink. I would sit at the bar and strike up conversations with anyone who was open to it. Back then, pretty much everyone was open to the conversation. I made some of my closest friends of that period of my life by doing this. I still enjoy heading out to the local watering holes for a drink and some live music and I often go alone. I am generally not met with the same enthusiasm for making new connections. A midlife woman alone in a bar is apparently quite the anomaly that many aren’t really sure how to approach. So they avoid instead. But that’s okay because I still enjoy my own company and the music that is playing.

Sweater: Old Navy (Old)
Shoes: Payless (Old)

Enter blogging and social media. Over the past 4 years of my blogging life, I have managed to create a small social media presence for myself. And it’s cool. I am in no way an attention hound, in fact, I often prefer to just blend in and go about my own business. But having people follow my journey and express their appreciation for my work is validating and really does feel pretty damn great. I really just want to help others learn how to experience the same kind of joy and happiness that I have discovered in this life. So I keep sharing and sending positive messages and energy out into internet land, hoping it reaches anyone.

Gloves: Anne Klein (Old)
Necklace: Kohl’s (Old)

And every now and then, someone reaches out to me personally to let me know that they can feel the positive vibes right through their computer or phone screens. And what a rush of good feels that brings me. I have also made some really great friends this way…and I couldn’t be more grateful to them for reaching out to me for friendship. It is a big, big world filled with seven and a half billion people who all have a story to share. Intriguing, compelling, uplifting, empowering, inspiring stories. People who inject love and kindness and joy into the world in their own special ways. And being open to this and part of it very well may be one of the most rewarding things ever in this life.

So this junkie has no intention of seeking rehabilitation services any time soon. I am just going to continue feeding my addiction and I am going to allow those of you who wish to enable my habit as well! You know who are. All of you fabulous friends of mine. Near and far. Whether I have met you in real life or not. You amaze me. You inspire me. You give me purpose. You fascinate me. Every single day. And I adore you for all that you are. And I thank the universe for teaching me how to keep my head and my heart and my soul open to receive all of your love and kindness. For that is what keeps my vessel overflowing so I can continue on my mission to shine light and kindness into the world. Kindness begets kindness. And love and joy are so addicting. I am just gonna roll with it.

Earrings: c/o Happiness Boutique

What’s your addiction? Can you see all the light and love in others? I really think you just need to be open to it all and allow yourself to receive it. When we invite the universe to guide us, she will takes us to the most enchanting places. Give it a try if you haven’t already!

And now your featured favorites from last week.

Shugunna of Nzuri ’N Simplicity shared her post, Army Green, and I have to say that I am absolutely loving this edgy look on her. Camouflage and Army Green are two of my favorite things!

Shugunna of Nzuri ’N Simplicity

Kellyann of This Blonde’s Shopping Bag shared her post, Beauty Hacks, and she has some great tips on self tanners and how to keep your makeup from melting off in the summer heat. Definitely worth a read!

Kellyann of This Blonde’s Shopping Bag

Before you link up, have you entered my giveaway yet? You can win $100 off a brand new Jord watch of your own or for a gift for someone else. You can read all about it here or go directly to the giveaway entry form here. There are not very many entries in yet, so you stand a great chance of winning if you enter now! It only takes a minute and an email address!

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Much love from the edge,

Shelbee

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I am a midlife woman, wife, and stay-at-home mother of 2 boys and 2 cats. I have a passion for helping other women feel fabulous in the midst of this crazy, beautiful life.

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