As Old as a Decade and That’s a Big Deal & Link Up On the Edge #242
Tomorrow Archie turns 10. And that is a big deal, y’all!
One decade ago in the evening hours of this day, I was sitting on my back patio in Bethlehem, Pennsylvania, with Jeff and my sister and her husband enjoying a steak dinner from the backyard grill. I was 35 weeks pregnant with a due date of June 1. I was hot. I was huge. I was uncomfortable. I was anxious. To ease my anxiety, my sister urged me to have a small glass of wine, reassuring me that baby Archie was all done cooking in there and a few sips of wine would do no harm.
Well, apparently Archie really liked the wine because after just 3 sips, he delivered one great swift kick to my insides subsequently and violently breaking my water. This was my first pregnancy so I was entirely unsure what anything was supposed to feel like. The best description that I can give is this…I felt a little kick, then I felt a little squirt, then I felt a bit of wetness that was followed by a bigger gush that sent me quietly into the bathroom to investigate in private. I spent about 1 minute in private before yelling for my sister.
She came into the bathroom and asked if I was okay as I showed her the state of my pants and underwear and asked if that is what it looks when your water breaks. She simply replied, “Yup. Call the doctor.” That was the day I learned what broken water looks and feels like! And off to the hospital we went where Archer James Herling was delivered by Caesarian section around 4:00 a.m. on May 1, 2011. Archer was five weeks early and weighed just a half ounce shy of 7 pounds.
When we revealed my pregnancy to our families, my father-in-law immediately predicted a May 1 birthday (which is his birthday). We laughed at him and said no way. But he was right! And his second grandchild was born on his 60th birthday. He still calls it the best birthday gift he ever received!
Anyway, here were are, the day before Archer is officially a 10 year old. We celebrated his birthday with a few friends last weekend and this weekend my in-laws are coming in to celebrate with him. We also have a second retirement party going on tomorrow for Jeff with the friends who could not make it to his official retirement ceremony and celebration in February.
Here are a few photos from Archie’s birthday party on Saturday.
His face when he opened his fancy new hunting knife from Uncle Adam is absolutely priceless. He also got a hoverboard from my father-in-law, hoverboard gear from my mother-in-law, nerf guns and accessories from Ralphie and us, and a variety of gift cards from his friends for his spending pleasure!
On Saturday morning before his party, Archie requested a trip to the USO Fort Drum Heritage Center and Museum. This child of mine is obsessed with military history including the history of weapons and other warfare tactics. He baffles me with his extensive knowledge. As we were walking through the little USO museum, I am fairly certain that Archie knew more about the weapons on display than the museum itself knows. Here is a little photo tour of what’s inside…
I hope you enjoyed this photo experience with me! If you are interested in learning more about any of the artifacts from this museum, you can visit the 10th Mountain Division Museum website. Have a fantastic weekend, y’all! And a very happy birthday to my first born!
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76 Comments
Alex
Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Love,
Alexandra,
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Thanks for stopping by, Alex! Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kellyann Rohr
Happy Birthday Archie! How cool that he shares the same birthday as his grandfather! That cake looks terrific too, once they hit the double digits I swear they grow up overnight!
Thanks for the link up Shelbee and have a super weekend!
xo,
Kellyann
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Thank you, Kellyann! I can’t get over how quickly they grow! And now at 10, he is like a mini adult with thoughts and opinions and ideas of his own. I love having conversations with my kids at this age! Their perspective is very interesting. Have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Jaymie Ashcraft
Happy Birthday to your son!!!
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Thanks so much, Jaymie! Have a great weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Gail
Happy birthday to Archie! Loved your pics, looks like he had a whale of a time. It’s lovely to make birthdays so memorable.
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Thanks so much, Gail! I like to keep their parties small and intimate and I think they really do make the best memories that way. The one thing I always splurge on for their birthdays though is their cakes. They have come up with some really interesting ones over the years! I hope you have a fabulous weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Jennifer
Aww happy birthday to Archie!! For being 5 weeks early, he was still a big baby!!!
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Thanks, Jennifer! I was actually pretty happy that he kicked his way out prematurely, otherwise I might have been pushing out a 12 pound baby! Have a great weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Kathrine Eldridge
Happy 10th birthday to Archie! My son Evan whose birthday is May 4 came a little early because my water broke as well. I remember it well becasue I was eating stuffed pizza and coke. Lol! So glad he had a great day and got amazing presents. Wait until he turns 18 and then you’re like, what happened? Thanks for the link up my friend.
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Kathrine, thanks so much for sharing a bit about Evan’s birth story! I am already like what the heck happened! Seriously, how did 10 years just zip right by? It is so crazy! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Jill
Happy birthday to Archie! Love your photo recap! That cake is really cool and the museum looks like a fun place to visit! Have a wonderful weekend!
Jill – Doused in Pink
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Thanks so much, Jill! We had a really good time celebrating his birthday and visiting the museum. I hope your weekend is fabulous!
xoxo
Shelbee
Nancy
Archie, Nancy here from the Netherlands! I wish you a fantastic Birthday tomorrow, have a fabulous day and enjoy it! And……save some cake for me!
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Aw, Nancy, thanks so much! I just read your comment to Archie and he also says thanks! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Amy Johnson
Happy Birthday to your son and thanks for the party!
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Thanks so much, Amy! Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Di
Wishing Archie a very happy birthday-it looks like he had a great time! And I love the special cake! Thanks for sharing his special day with us. It sounds like your house has been party central for the past few weeks. Hope you have a wonderful weekend!
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Thanks so much, Di! There has been way too much partying in my house for my old bones! I am exhausted already and the weekend hasn’t even begun yet! Haha. I have never had big expensive birthday parties for my kids, but I do always let them pick whatever special cake they want. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Estelle Forrest
Happy Friday! Thanks so much for hosting this wonderful weekly link-up. I hope you get a chance to check out my Orange Chicken & Ginger Rice recipe – it is so so yummy!
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Thanks so much, Estelle! It sounds amazing! I look forward to checking it out! I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
jess jannenga
Hi Shelbee,
Happy Birthday to Archie! I enjoyed reading about your sons birthday on his grandpaps., how neat!
Love the cake too! You made me laugh talking about drinking a sip of wine and him kicking!
jess xx
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Thanks, Jess! Oh, the day leading up to Archie’s birth was quite the scene! But I always have a sense of humor on my side and Archie clearly inherited that from me! Haha. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Suzy
Awww what a lovely post! HAPPY BIRTHDAY ARCHIE! Have fun tomorrow!
Hugs
Suzy xx
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Thanks so much, Suzy! It will be a busy weekend here, for sure! I hope you have a lovely weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Rosemary Davis
Happy Birthday Archie,
Shelbee, I love this sweet post!
My grandson’s birthday is one day before my sons. My son always tells him he is the best birthday present ever!
Rosemary xoxo-dSs
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Thanks so much, Rosemary! I love that story about your son and grandson. How special is that! Than you for sharing that with me. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lucy Bertoldi
Happy Birthday to your son and Happy Birthing Day to you! And- the same thing happened to me with my first! It was my husband’s name day and I decided to take just 2 sips of wine and that was it- that same night my waters broke and she came 3 weeks early! Enjoy your precious 10 year baby xx
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Lucy, thanks so much for sharing your birth experience with me! These silly kids, always in a hurry to come into the world and grow up! There must be something about the wine pushing the babies out…and clearly it only takes a few sips. The worst part about delivery my first child at 35 weeks was when I passed that point with Ralph, I was like, “Oh, heck no, I do not want to be this uncomfortable for 5 more weeks.” Fortunately, Ralphie came 2 weeks early so I only had an 3 extra weeks of feeling uncomfortable! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, my friend!
xoxo
Shelbee
mireille
Happy birthday, Archie! Sounds like a great party and awesome gifts. Love his cake too!
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Thanks so much, Mireille! He had a great time! I have always kept their birthdays fairly low key and then I splurge on their cakes! Have a great weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Michelle
Awww…, Happy Birthday, Archie! (And beware of grandfathers making birthdate predictions!!!)
Michelle
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Thanks, Michelle! Yeah, grandfather predictions are something else! Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Claire
Aww, happy birthday to your son 🙂 Thanks for hosting.
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Thanks so much, Claire! I hope you have a lovely weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Rena
What a wonderful story and I’ll bet that Archie loves hearing about the events prior to his birth. And any time to celebrate your children is a great occasion. Happy Birthday, Archie (and to you, Mama 😉).
Rena
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Rena, thanks so much! Archie does love to hear stories about all sorts of things in our lives that happened before he came along! And he is very proud of himself for kicking his way into this world! Also, he will forever be an early bird (like both of his parents). For example, his school drop off time is 8:05-8:25. If we are not there by 8:05, he is freaking out on me that he’s late despite my endless explanations that we still have 20 minutes until he is actually late. But the early bird gets the worm and he does like worms, too! Haha.
xoxo
Shelbee
Lauren Renee Sparks
I loved hearing your birth story. Both of my girls ended up being induced and I always kinda felt like I missed out on something never having gone into spontaneous labor.
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Thank you, Lauren! I enjoyed learning of yours as well. I didn’t even really have labor with Archie. My water broke and I never had any contractions at all. I had an 8 hour long panic attack until they did the C-section though! With Ralphie, I had a scheduled C-section but went into labor 5 days before my scheduled date. I could have done without those contractions! I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Tamar A Strauss-Benjamin
Happy birthday, Archie!!!! What a great way to turn 10.
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Thank you so much, Tamar! Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Sheila (of Ephemera)
Happy Decade, Archie! I remember my 10th birthday vividly, being so excited about being in “double digits”. Awesome cake and wow, what a bunch of cool presents! And a tour of his favourite museum, to boot.
Thanks so much for the link-up, Michelle! Have a fabulous weekend!
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Sheila, my friend, thanks so much! I do not remember my 10th birthday at all! I am excited for Archie to wake up this morning so I can give him a giant birthday hug! How the heck did a decade go by so quickly?!
xoxo
Shelbee
Joanne
It sounds like he had a really fabulous birthday! That cake sounds amazing. I just love chocolate and raspberry combined. Funny enough that with all 3 of my pregnancies I never once had my water break.
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Thanks, Joanne! He did have a nice birthday except his new nerf gun broke with the first shot so he was a bit upset about that. It is already replaced so he’s happy again! Haha. I had no contractions with Archie because my water didn’t break naturally. When it was Ralph’s turn, I had no idea what to expect and the contractions came on slowly…until my water broke, then the contractions were so intense. I am glad I am done with all the baby making stuff! Ha. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Darlene
Aw, happy 10th birthday to Archie!! What a cutie. I remember when my Max said on his tenth, “I’m double digits from now on, Momma!” Lol! Like Archie, he is a lover of history and weaponry. AH, boys. Enjoy Jeff’s second celebration of returning to non-military life!! (But really, once an Army or Marine guy, always a military guy, right?)
xx Darlene
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Darlene, thank you so much! I love what Max said on his tenth birthday! Now let’s hope these boys of ours can make it to triple digits! We had a little farewell ceremony yesterday at Jeff’s office which was really nice. It was a more informal one with just the group that he has worked with for the past 5 years. They gave him some really cool parting gifts! But I didn’t take a single picture at the event because I was just enjoying the moment. And yes, Jeff will always be an Army guy! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Terri Gardner
Happy birthday (or late) Archie. I enjoyed your story about how Archie came into your life. I think our birthing experiences are so ingrained in our minds that we never forget almost every detail. I know after all these years, I can pretty much remember them and in detail.
A new decade is always a big deal. Or at least they are for me. Take care, Terri
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Terri, thank you so much! Birthing experiences definitely leave a lasting impact. I have a terrible memory with almost everything in life, but I do recall nearly all the details of birthing both of my boys. And everyone has an intersting story, too. I have never heard a birth story that didn’t make me feel powerful emotions in one way or another. These are the conversations that enrich our lives, aren’t they? The sharing of important experiences. A decade is a big deal! Heck, at this point in my life, I look at each new day as a big deal and cause for celebration! I hope you are having a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Deborah Stinedurf
What a cool kid…just like his cool mom! xo
Debbie
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Aw, Debbie, thanks so much, my friend! You know, I always remember when you shared a comment with me about how your son drove you crazy as a child but now he is your best friend and fave person to hang with. I hold onto that little tidbit especially on these milestone occasions. And I am seeing it happen right before my eyes. As they grow and evolve as humans, our children turn into really cool cats! Maybe because they have cool moms!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick Weseman
Very nice. Happy Blessed Birthday to him. What a cool cake and what a cool museum to go to. He is a smart cookie.
Thanks for hosting and I hope that you are having a wonderful weekend and hope he has a wonderful birthday.
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Patrick, thank you so very much! Archie definitely is one smart cookie and I am one proud mama! Archie has been wanting to go to Washington, D.C. to see all the military things there. We were planning to take a family vacation there last year for his birthday. But, well, that couldn’t happen! Hopefully, we can get him there soon but I will wait until travel is easier. I hope you are having a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Regine Karpel
Happy Birthday Archie.
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Regine, thank you so much! Have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Shops
Aww, happy 10th birthday to Archie—that’s a big one! Love the story of his birth too; I had a friend who was about to be induced and several sips of Guinness did it for her 😉
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Cheryl, thank you so much! I think there is something in those few sips of alcohol that really can trigger baby to come out! I have received a few similar comments like this one already. It’s kind of fascinating! I hope you are having a really wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura Bambrick
What a story! Happy birthday to Archie! That is really neat that he was born on his grandpa’s birthday!
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Thanks so much, Laura! I hope you are having a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Maureen
Happy birthday to your Archie, Shelbee! I am so glad he had an amazing day. Even cooler that he has the same birthday as his grandpa. So, how do you feel now that he is 10? I hope you are having a great weekend so far and happy Sunday!
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Maureen, thank you so much! He did have a great birthday and he had even more fun yesterday at our combination retirement/birthday party. Right now, how I feel about him being 10 is tired!! We did a lot of celebrating and I am pooped. But really, it is kind of surreal how quickly a decade has flown by. And Archie was getting mad us for saying that over and over again! Haha. I hope you are having a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Jean | Delightful Repast
Shelbee, your son is adorable! Of course, his cake style choice is different from mine, but the inside of that cake sounds like something we can *all* agree on! Thank you for hosting. Happy May!
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Thank you so much, Jean! Oh yes, the inside of the cake is the most important part! And it was out of this world! Happy May to you as well!
xoxo
Shelbee
Mica
happy birthday to your son! 🙂 What a yummy looking cake and that trip sounds like a nice way to cleberate for him!
I never had the big dramatic water breaking in my pregnancies – it wasn’t until we were in hospital with the boys. Which was nice as someone else cleaned it up, ha!
Thanks for the link up 🙂
Hope that you had a good weekend 🙂 It’s a relaxing long weekend for us!
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Thank you, Mica! I just laughed out loud at this phrase…”big dramatic water breaking”. They really make it look like it’s a huge drama in the movies, don’t they?! It wasn’t really as dramatic as Hollywood likes to show us! Although when my water broke with Ralphie, that was a bit messy but I was already in the hospital and my poor sister ended up being the one cleaning me up! We had a wonderfully busy weekend and now I am just trying to get back to my routine!
xoxo
Shelbee
Leelo
Happy Birthday to Archie!
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Thank you, Leelo!
xoxo
Shelbee
Ashley
Aww, Happy belated Birthday to Archie! It looks like he had a wonderful time! 🙂
I love Jennifer from Effortlessly Sophisticated too!
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Ashley, thanks so much! I hope you are having a wonderful start to your week!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lovely
Happy Birthday, Archie! The birthday celebrations sounds wonderful, and that cake looks amazing! I loved reading your birth story.
xoxo
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Lovely, thank you so very much!
xoxo
Shelbee
Niki
Wow! An almost 7lb premie! They say babies gain a pound during the 9th month, the 36, 37, 38, and 39th weeks. I bet you were glad he came a bit early. Both of mine came a few months early. God blessed me immensely by making them both healthy, and they got to go home as soon as I did. My youngest came at 34 weeks and weighed in at 4 lb 13.9oz. He will be celebrating his 10th in less than a month. Happy, happy birthday to Archie! Thanks for hosting! This is my first time visiting you. I am one of the hosts of Traffic Jam Weekend, so thank you for sharing!
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Niki, thank you so much! Yes, I was very glad that Archie came as early as he did because he likely would have been an 11 pound baby! He came home when I did as well. He had to spend about 8 hours in the NICU just to make sure his temperature regulated and he was breathing properly. But all was good for him! I enjoyed reading about your birth experience, too. Happy birthday to your son as well…another May baby?
xoxo
Shelbee
Emma Peach
Happy belated birthday Archie! I hope you all had a wonderful day!
Emma xxx
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Thank you so much, Emma!
xoxo
Shelbee