When Bloggers Meet & #SpreadTheKindness Link Up #83
When bloggers meet in real life, magic happens! Every single time that I have had the opportunity to meet a blogger friend in real life, it has been the most amazing experience. Never did I ever imagine what a fabulous group of people I would be calling friends when I first began my blogging journey. But through all the posts that we each read and share, you do begin to sort of “know” these bloggers before you ever meet them in person. And you get a good feel for the ones with whom you are sure to make a connection.
Two weeks ago, I was traveling to visit family in Pennsylvania. I had recently sent something to Monica of Jersey Girl, Texan Heart, so I had her address on hand. As my visiting schedule was pretty relaxed, I decided to search the distance between where I would be in Pennsylvania and where she lived in New Jersey. I was super excited to discover that she was only an hour away. So I sent her a very last minute email to see if she would be interested in meeting halfway for coffee. How excited I was when she replied in the positive and had found the perfect little spot that was exactly a 30 minute drive for each of us.
We decided to have coffee at Citispot Tea & Coffee in Clinton, New Jersey, which was directly across the street from the Red Mill Museum. As Monica had just gotten a new camera, she was excited for the opportunity to take some blog photos during our meet up. I was more than happy to oblige. I mean, nobody understands the ins and outs of blog photo shoots more than other bloggers (or their Instagram husbands/boyfriends/wives/girlfriends). And when a blogger friend suggests a photo shoot during your meet up, your brain starts reeling over what to wear! Monica is super edgy and cool and I wanted to match her sartorial bravery, so I went all out in the daring factor with my outfit that day. I didn’t even realize until after I saw the photos just how daring it was of me to be walking around town dressed like this! But there you have…be brave, be bold, be confident, and just keep smiling.
Before we even met, I knew that I really liked Monica. I like that she does not just focus on fashion, but she addresses real life issues that inspire and empower anyone who reads her blog. She enlightens us about the true history of the Holocaust as she makes frequent visits to Poland each year to visit family. She shares her personal experience with epilepsy in the hopes that she can help someone else deal with a similar diagnosis. She dives deep into her own body image issues and encourages others to feel fabulous in their own skin. She shares diet and exercise routines that have helped her to cope with her epilepsy and body image. She builds computers and loves cars and she has really freaking fantastic style! So if you are looking for a new blog to follow that will provide you with a huge variety of interesting topics, Monica is your girl!
And that is all the stuff I thought about Monica before I ever met her! And then we met! She is even prettier in person! How does that happen? We angle our bodies for photos in the most flattering ways, we adjust the color and light settings to make us shine perfectly, and some of us even edit away to showcase the perfect image of ourselves…yet in real life, when you can see the beautiful personality shining through, the woman is even more beautiful than you could have imagined just from photographs. Then we got talking. And we didn’t stop talking for 3 straight hours. Neither one of us looked at a clock or picked up our phones. We drank our iced coffees and chatted like we had known each other for our entire lives. And we didn’t even really talk about blogging at all. In an email conversation after our meet up, we were laughing when I wrote this to Monica, “I knew we were all good when I causally dropped the ‘C’ word into the conversation and you unhesitatingly replied with, ‘That’s my favorite word ever. And so many people get so offended by it.’” That sealed the deal right there…Monica is my kind of girl…real, raw, genuine, smart, sassy, witty, and stylish.
Finally, when we realized how much time had passed in conversation and the clouds were moving in threatening rain showers, we headed outside to the Red Mill for a photo session. Thanks so much to Monica for making me own this bold look in front of the camera and in front of a lot of passers by! I just hope I did her photos justice when she put my lame photography skills to the test for her photos! Let’s go check her out and see how I did as photographer! And be sure to follow Monica on Instagram @jerseygirltexanheart. You can also follow her evolving photography skills on her photography Instagram account @monicareleasetheshutter.
Have you ever met bloggers in real life? What was your experience? Who would you love to meet? There are so many on my list!
And now the featured favorites from last week.
Tiina of Elegance Revisited shared her post clarifying Nordic style in the appropriate terms from a fabulously nonchalant, you-get-what-you-see, super stylish Finn. Check out her tips about attitude and lifestyle with regard to personal style in her post, What is Nordic Minimalism? Not only will you be better educated, you will also be inspired, and you will surely end with a smile on your face.
And Debbie of Fashion Fairy Dust shared a wonderful response to a recent trolling incident plus a really cute dress in her post, Boho Mini Dress & Sneakers: Keyboard Bravado. As always, Debbie speaks her mind without fear or shame and expresses her style in the exact same way!
Monica is joining me today as co-host of #SpreadTheKindness Link Up as well. So you can link up here or head on over to Jersey Girl, Texan Heart and link up there!
Here are some other pretty photos from our location in Clinton, New Jersey.
Keeping it on the edge,
Shelbee
Linking up with these Fabulous Link Ups.
76 Comments
Elsie
Shelbee your meet-up sounds wonderful. I’ve met a few bloggers too and it’s always so fun to meet with like minded people who share your passion and frustration. The photos are just beautiful, what a great spot. I also love your outfit. It reminds me that I have something similar in ivory that I should break out and wear again! Thanks for the inspiration!
Elsie | http://www.polishedwhimsy.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Elsie, thanks so much! I have not had a bad experience yet when I have met up with other bloggers. The community is so supportive and friendly and just all around amazing! And I have been wanting something similar to this dress in ivory! I can’t wait to see how you style yours!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kellyann Rohr
So much to say here – first it is so cool that you were able to meet up with Monica. I think it’s awesome that you two met and hit it off – I am looking forward to meeting up IRL with some bloggers over the next few months and I am positively giddy! Now that outfit – so fabulous. So sexy and you are totally killing it! And these photos? Shot in such a great location, I love them and you too friend!
xo,
Kellyann
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Kellyann, thank you so much! You are one of the bloggers at the top of my list of who I want to meet in real life! I am so excited that you are getting to meet some blogger friends yourself soon. It is always such a great experience! And people say making friends in midlife is difficult!
xoxo
Shelbee
Tamar A Strauss-Benjamin
How FUN to meet up with a blogger!! These photos are super!!
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Tamar, thanks so much! It is always such a great experience to meet blogger friends in real life!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
That’s so pretty Shelbee! This could be worn so many ways too xx
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Thanks so much, Laurie! It has a black slip lining too so I can wear just as a black dress…which I haven’t yet worn!
xoxo
Shelbee
Maria | passion fruit, paws and peonies
Well done Monica for taking some fabulous photos! Shelbee you look AMAZING!!! I’m so pleased you two ladies had a great time together and the setting was a great choice! xx
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Maria, thanks so much! It really is so much fun hanging with a fabulous blogger friend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Monica
You are such a sweetheart with what you wrote about me. Thank you ♥️ I can’t wait until next time! I can’t believe how time flew. I thought maybe an hour went by but nope it is as 4 haha!
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Aw, you are a sweetheart, too, Monica! I had such a great time! I will for sure let you know next time I am down that way!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kathrine Eldridge
Love that you two met up! This is so cool and edgy. Thanks so much for the link up Shelbee!
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Kathrine! It is always such a great experience! There seems to always be an instant connection by virtue of blogging.
xoxo
Shelbee
Gail
How great to meet Monica in such a spontaneous way! The Red Mill is a gorgeous location for your shoot.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Gail! When an opportunity presents itself, you have to grab hold of it and run! I am so glad that we made this happen.
xoxo
Shelbee
kim higgins
she took so great photos of you. I love the area it looks so pretty
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Thanks so much, Kim! Ooh, my next trip down that way, I need a coffee date with you and Michele!
xoxo
Shelbee
jodie filogomo
That’s so wonderful you two were able to meet up!! It’s always so amazing to get to actually talk in person with these people you “know” through blogging!!
I can’t wait until we can meet someday!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jodie, I cannot wait to meet you in person one day, too! You are number one on my list!
xoxo
Shelbee
Deborah Stinedurf
Omg…I love this post! Monica nailed it with the photos…you look drop dead gorgeous and smokin’ hot…and the backgrounds are ah-maze-ing! Thank you for the shout out too my beautiful friend!
Debbie
http://www.fashionfairydust.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Debbie, thanks so much! I was definitely channeling some serious badass vibes walking around in this outfit! People were looking at us, for sure! And it is always my pleasure to feature you and your fabulous style and your amazing and always thought-provoking content! You rock, my friend, Have a fabulous day.
xoxo
Shelbee
suzy turner
Shelbee, this is exactly the kind of outfit I would love to wear! That sheer black goth-inspired black dress is GORGEOUS!! And I just adore the way you’ve styled it. LOVE LOVE LOVE <3 <3 <3
And the photos are stunning – made perfect by the model and the photographer! (and the background too, of course lol).
I'd love to come over and meet you. Let's hope that it does happen one of these days!!
Hugs
Suzy xxx
http://www.suzyturner.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Suzy, thanks so much! You would totally rock an outfit like this, too! I have yet to style this piece the way it was intended…with the black slip underneath. I have worn it a few times over a black cami and jeans with a moto jacket and it is equally adorable that way. I just never got good pictures of that yet! I would absolutely love to meet you one day! I don’t see myself ever making it to your part of the world, but if ever you make it to New York, I will drive to where you are to meet you!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick Weseman
Monica did a great job with the photos. Looks like a wonderful location. Thanks for hosting and I hope that you have an amazing week.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Patrick! Clinton, New Jersey, really is a very cute, quaint little town. We had a blast! Have a wonderful day, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Lisa Richardson
So fun that you and Monica got to meet and have some fun together. It really is fun to meet someone in real life that you’ve been communicating with. These are such fun photos and the locations was terrific. Happy Tuesday!!! XO
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Lisa! You are definitely on my list of bloggers I want to meet! Maybe one of these days, we will make it happen! Have a fantastic day, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Lisa Richardson
That would be fantastic!!!! I’d love that too!
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I need to get a paying job so I can start a travel fund! Ha.
Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom
I really love getting to meet other bloggers, too! It is just so much fun and you know you’ll instantly have so much in common! I didn’t know you were in New Jersey, one of my blogger besties lives in Hightstown, NJ, not sure if you know where that is… Just love this sheer overlay you wore, sooo pretty and attractive! I also love this area where you took the photos!
Carrie
curlycraftymom.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Carrie, thanks so much! It really is so much fun to meet other bloggers. I want to meet all of you! I am not familiar with Hightstown and had to go look it up. It is a little further south in NJ than I tend to travel. But if ever you are in NJ, do let me know, I will make the trip, for sure! Have a fantastic day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Trina Morgan
Wow! Sounds like a really fun coffee meet up. By the way love what you’re wearing so cute! 🙂
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Trina! It is always such a rush to meet a fellow blogger! Have a fantastic day.
xoxo
Shelbee
Elizabeth Ramsey
What a fun get together! And that town is just made for photo shoots! Totally adorable.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Betsy! You and I definitely need to get together for coffee and a photo shoot! Just let me know when you are in the Rochester area and I will make the drive there!
xoxo
Shelbee
Liz
Oooo I love that top! And it’s so much fun to meet other bloggers in real life! It’s almost like you already know each other 😉
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Liz! I need a dress like this in ivory now, too! And you really do feel like you know each other before you meet. It makes it so much fun to hear their voice and see the real life version as opposed to just still photographs and written words!
xoxo
Shelbee
Jessica A Jannenga
Hi Shelbee
How great you got to meet with Monica on your visit. it is so nice when other bloggers can meet and enjoy talking about all things. I love the location too that you shot these photos, and the long dress over your shorts, edgy and so cute! Love your shoes too.
I have met with other bloggers in NYC during the Jambu event, and had a great time, i hope to also meet a few Charlotte bloggers in the near future.
Have a great week!
jess xx
http://www.elegantlydressedandstylish.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jess, thanks so much! It really is so wonderful to meet other people who are on this blogging journey. So many people don’t understand the whole blogging thing, so it is definitely refreshing to have conversations with like-minded people. But then to discover that we had so many other things to talk about made it a super fantastic experience! I do so hope one day that our paths cross in real life, too! I would love to meet you in person, my friend. Have a fantastic day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Shops
I love meeting up with bloggers IRL—if you’re ever in northern California, let me know!
Cheryl Shops | http://www.cherylshops.net
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
It is so much fun, Cheryl! I am hoping to make it to California maybe next year. I wanted to attend the LA Forever Fierce meet up but it is just not in my budget this year. And if you are ever in the Northeast, do let me know. I will make my way to where you are, if I can. That would be so cool to meet you in real life!
xoxo
Shelbee
Evgenia Kovalievska
Your top is so nice! But shoes are totally 100 % of my love!
http://evgphotos.com/2018/07/30/how-to-choose-spectrum-color-combinations/
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Evgenia! I find some really amazing shoes at Charlotte Russe!
xoxo
Shelbee
Tianna
Grogeous! I love meeting blogger friends IRL – it’s such a cool experience!
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Tianna! It really is so fun to meet other bloggers. It seems no one else really gets this blogging thing!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
I have never met any bloggers in real life, which is weird since I have exchanged some really intense comments with some. I would love to meet some if I get the chance!
LOVE the outfit this week!
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Laurie! It is such a cool experience especially since you do exchange deep and meaningful comments with each other! As I am stalking your social media accounts, I see that you are also in Pennsylvania…where in PA do you live? Maybe we could make a Pennsylvania blogger meet up happen! There are a quite a few that I know of who are spattered across the state!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
I live in Lititz, Lancaster County.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Oh my, well that is quite close to where I visit family! An hour and a half from my sister in Bethlehem, an hour and 45 minutes from my mother-in-law in Weatherly, and less than 30 minutes from my brother-in-law in Annville. I see a coffee meet up in our future, my friend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
Yay!
Nancy Baten
I love to meet other bloggers! It’s fantastic to talk about the same passion you share! I’m hoping to meet two English bloggers in September!
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Nancy, thanks for popping in! It really is so much fun! I was so envious when you got to meet Nina as I would love to meet both of you! Perhaps someday our paths will cross. I need to start a blogger travel fund and get my butt on the road!
xoxo
Shelbee
Ada
That is so cool that you met Monica. I would love to meet you both one day. And what a fun, edgy and totally Monica-like outfit you wore. So brave, fierce and stylish! I love Monica’s all-around blog, too!
Welcome join my Tuesdays monthly linkup. It is the last Tuesday of every month, also join my Thursday Moda every week and share your beautiful style, Thanks!! =)) Ada.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thanks so much, Ada! It was super fun to spend the day with Monica! And one of these days, you and I will certainly meet in real life! I am going to make sure of it. Okay, how did I not know that you also had a Tuesday link up? I will add it to my link ups page!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lauren Sparks
Connections. Warms my heart. Friendship is my love language. laurensparks.net
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Oh me, too, Lauren! I thrive on connections!
xoxo
Shelbee
stephanie
looks like a great place!!! love the photos. sounds like a lot of fun
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Thanks so much, Stephanie! It really was a lot of fun!
xoxo
Shelbee
Maureen
Wow! It’s so awesome that you and Monica got the opportunity to meet. This is a goal of mine – to meet blogger friends in real life! You both look great in your outfits and I enjoyed reading both of your posts. Very inspirational and I have to say there is hope yet! It’s so nice to find friends that share the same passion and it is even sweeter when you are surrounded by friends that understand what you are going through. Blogging isn’t an easy topic to break down but having a community really helps and makes the journey so much more enjoyable!
Maureen | http://www.littlemisscasual.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Maureen, it really is so amazing to connect in real life with other bloggers. We get to know each other through our blogs but there is much we don’t share publicly that we do share face to face. It is really cool to learn more about each other in that way. One of these days, I am going to make my way to the West Coast and hopefully it will be near where you live! I would love to meet you in real life as I feel like we already have such a great basis for friendship! Thanks for popping in!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura
That is so great you were able to meet up with Monica! I love reading her blog!The photos she took turned out so well!
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Thank you, Laura! It was so much fun! And I am so happy with the photos.
xoxo
Shelbee
Bettye L Rainwater
What a great experience! I wish I could meet up with more bloggers IRL! I checked out her blog and it’s lovely, will definitely be following her going forward.
And you did a great job photographing her!
Bettye
https://fashionschlub.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Thank you so much, Bettye! It really is such an all around amazing experience to meet other bloggers. It is so cool to meet and connect with the person behind the blog. There is so much that we don’t share on our blogs that we do share in real life and that is super cool to discover!
xoxo
Shelbee
analysa
It’s nice that you guys had an interesting meeting. I like your pictures. This place is also great
https://lizado.com/
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Analysa, thanks so much! It was a wonderful meet up, for sure!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kim
What a great location you were able to meet up at *and* have a photo shoot. It’s so great to engage with other bloggers. I have a meet up scheduled in a few weeks and I can’t wait! That lace/tulle dress is amazing–you are bold!
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Kim, thanks so much! It is always so fun to spend time with other bloggers as they know better than anyone the nature of this blogging game! How fun that you have a meet up coming soon. I look forward to reading about it on your blog!
xoxo
Shelbee
Susan
OMFG! Kimonos and Torrid, and a meet up? Will the fabulousness never end?
I am overwhelmed at this look, Shelbee. You know my abiding love for Torrid, and all things black lace and kimono, and cutoffs. Or you will be when you see my myriad submissions for this month’s Good Bye/Good Buy book. May I send six photos? As soon as I lure my photographer friend over here with his camera, and lovely angles. A cookout might do, or maybe I will just have to buy him lunch.
You should have no anxiety rocking this look. When I saw it, my mouth dropped open and I stared in unabashed awe (and a wee bit of bashed envy). You are a blogging goddess. Your Momma would be so proud.
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Aw, Susan! Thank you so much! The more I look at these photos, the more confident I become about how I look in this outfit! I suppose I will wear something similar on my next date night. And yes, you may submit as many photos as you like and we will share them, for sure! I am so excited to see what you are styling for us!
xoxo
Shelbee
Claire
I love meeting real bloggers. I bet it was a great met up 🙂 It is a shame we will never be able to meet up with the miles apart we live as I would have loved to have a meet up with you. Lovely outfit. I have something like this but I have popped on a bit of weight so cannot get in mine at the minute. Thanks for sharing at The Wednesday Blog Hop 🙂
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Claire, thanks so much! I am sure you will be fitting into your similar dress soon and I look forward to seeing how you style such a piece. It would be amazing to meet you in real life! And if ever I travel to England, I will surely let you know! And if ever you travel to New York, be sure to let me know. Have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patti
Blogger meet-ups are some of the best moments in my life! So glad you two got together and deepened a friendship, xo
-Patti
http://notdeadyetstyle.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Aw, thanks so much, Patti! Blogger friends really are the best!
xoxo
Shelbee
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