How 20 Minutes Can Save Your Life & Link Up On the Edge #167
“I would encourage you: be informed – knowledge is power.”
Matt Bevin
I am sure you are all aware that October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. But we need to be alert and on top of preventative measures all year long. Just as cancer doesn’t decide to strike only in October, we need to be scheduling our annual mammograms all throughout the year. However, I always get my mammograms in October because it is the easiest for me to remember. You know, at this stage of life, the memory is the first thing to go!
Due to my age and my health, my doctors have recommended that I have my breast screenings every other year. This year was the year. I just went on Wednesday, so while it is fresh in my memory, I wanted to share with you just how quick and easy the mammogram process really is and how this twenty minute screening really can save your life.
In recent years, there has been a gradual decline in breast cancer diagnoses in women over the age of 50. Since 1990, there has been a noticeable drop in death rates due to breast cancer because of increased awareness, better screening procedures and early detection, as well as treatment options that continue to improve with medical advancements.
We are a nation whose health care system has been focused primarily on sick care for a really long time. But there is a shift occurring where preventative care is becoming just as important, if not more important, as medical professionals and insurance companies are realizing the dramatic benefits to everyone when we focus on maintaining good health rather than simply treating and curing illnesses after the fact.
Breast screenings, or mammograms, are one of the best ways for early detection of any type of suspicious lumps in the breasts that can be cause for concern. When detected early while still in the localized stage, the five year relative survival rate for breast cancer patients is 100%. That speaks volumes to the importance of getting those mammograms as well as regular self breast exams and clinical breast exams by your gynecologist.
I will admit that I am not the most diligent in self exams and with the change in New York State for regular gynecology wellness exams (breast and pelvic exams) moving to every five years, I do make certain to schedule my mammograms every two years as recommended by my primary care physician.
The American Cancer Society recommends that women with certain high risk factors should begin having annual mammograms at age 30. The standard recommendation for women who are at average risk is annual breast screenings beginning at the age of 45, but some may opt to begin at 40. Once you have reached the age of 55, breast screenings are recommended every other year. Because I have a general family history of cancer (not specifically breast cancer), I began having mammograms once I turned 40. But due to good health and clear screenings, I only go every other year.
I know the idea of a mammogram can be quite intimidating and even anxiety or fear provoking for some women. So I wanted to briefly share my recent experience in the radiology department of Samaritan Medical Center in Watertown, New York. When I scheduled my appointment, I had it in mind that I wanted to document the process somehow but there are a million privacy regulations that all medical treatment centers must abide by.
So when I got to my appointment, I explained to the mammogram technician, Brianne, that I wanted to document my experience on my blog. She was totally on board with my mission and went to get her supervisor to inquire about taking pictures during the screening. Her supervisor explained to me that due to the strict privacy regulations, I could not take a picture of any patient, including myself as the patient that day. But he did permit me to take some photos of the equipment and Brianne was kind enough to pose with this beloved life saving screening machine!
Brianne conducted my last screening in October 2017 as well. She is super friendly and personable and very in tune with the women she screens. In fact, I couldn’t get over the fact that she remembered me from two years ago! She explains the process in detail and is very gentle as she manipulates your breasts into the tedious positions required to get an appropriate scan of the breast tissue.
She also maintains entertaining conversation with you to distract you from any discomfort that may be caused by having a stranger playing with your breasts! Although, she makes you feel as if you are not strangers at all which definitely aids in the comfort level for anyone who may be bashful or wary about the mammogram process. I am not at all bashful when it comes to nudity especially in a health care environment. It is just necessary and I have no shame or embarrassment in it. But I do understand that there are many women who may find this process very uncomfortable. I am hoping that by sharing my experience, I can help mitigate any discomfort so that you all take the initiative and get your mammograms.
As far as physical discomfort or pain, there is literally none involved, other than the tedious manipulation to get your breast into the machine properly. Basically, it is just an awkward process, not painful. I even went for my mammogram at the height of PMS breast tenderness and it was fine. The entire procedure from the moment I walked into the radiology room until I walked out was less than twenty minutes. That is twenty minutes well spent in the interest of potentially saving my life.
This was my third mammogram at Samaritan Medical Center. Each time I have gone in October and received a gift bag and pink carnations as a thank you for having my screening there.
One of these days, if ever I can get this blog making me a decent income, I plan to sponsor the Samaritan mammogram gift bags with some sort of donation. Overall, I have never had a bad experience with any procedure that I have had done at Samaritan in the past 6 1/2 years that I have lived in Watertown. So I just wanted to give them a big heartfelt thank you for all that they do in caring for our little community and our health care needs.
I also wanted to share with any local readers that Samaritan Medical Center will be opening a new Women’s Wellness and Breast Care Center in the Samaritan Health and Wellness Plaza on Washington Street. There will be a ribbon cutting ceremony and open house on November 13, 2019, from 4:00-7:00 p.m. I was invited to come tour the facility before the ribbon cutting ceremony, so if I can fit that into my schedule, I will definitely share photos and more information here.
So tell me, if you are a woman who falls into the categories where mammograms are recommended, have you had your mammogram yet?!
Now onto the featured favorites section of this post! I am going to try something new this week. I am going to feature three different categories of posts. (1) The reader favorite (most clicked). (2) My favorite outfit post. (3) My favorite post that is not fashion related. It will be a recipe, a DIY project, a book review, a travel post, an inspirational post, etc.
Reader Favorite (Most Clicked Post)
Last weeks’ reader favorite was Julie of This Main Line Life with her post, Turning 50: The Good, The Bad & The WTF. There is some seriously good stuff in this post that left me nodding my head in agreement and chuckling out loud at the accuracy of midlife stuff!
My Favorite Outfit Post
Mel of Mom with Style captured my heart with her sassy outfit in her post, Tips on How to Create a Fall Wardrobe You’ll Love. The outfit is inspiration enough, but then Mel shares some fun tips on curating the perfect Fall wardrobe.
My Favorite Non-Fashion Post
She had me at neoteny. As a wordsmith, I am always up for a good vocabulary lesson. But not only that, Pam of A New Lens has offered a supremely valuable commentary on the benefits of aging while retaining a sense of childlike whimsy in her post, Age: A New Word to Define It.
Keeping it on the edge,
Shelbee
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84 Comments
Deborah Stinedurf
You look adorable as always…and I love the coat and boots! I’ve been having annual mammograms since my 30’s because my girls are problem children. Over the years I’ve had to have an ultrasound, a needle biopsy and an mri (the mri was because I have implants and they thought one might be leaking) on them as well, but there’s never been anything of consequence.
Debbie
http://www.fashionfairydust.com
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Thanks so much, Debbie! I am so sorry that you have problem boobies, but I am glad that you are on top of it and any minor scares turned out to be of no consequence. These crazy things we have to carry around sure can be a nuisance sometimes! Stay healthy!
xoxo
Shelbee
Kathrine Eldridge
I get mammograms every year and so glad you are reminding people with this post. Love this parisian chic look! I adore the hat and coat. Thanks for the link up Shelbee!
https://www.kathrineeldridge.com
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Thanks so much, Kathrine! It is important to spread awareness, reduce embarrassment and fear, and take care of each other!
xoxo
Shelbee
Jill
I’m a breast cancer thriver and am so glad you posted this reminder and explained the mammogram process in detail! Having them done consistently really can save your life! You are so chic in your pink! Have a wonderful weekend!
Jill – Doused in Pink
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Jill, thanks so much! I am so glad that you are here to share your experience and encourage women to take preventative measures. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Nancy
I have a mammogram every other year because it is in my family. It never bothers me. I always think: there is no one up there who would also give me breast cancer! Lol. Have a fabulous weekend!
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Nancy, thanks for stopping by today! And I am so glad that you go for regular mammograms. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
mireille
I really need to schedule one: I had one probably ten years ago when my obgyn felt a lump that turned out to be nothing but now at 44, need to go back in!
Love the flowy pink shirt!
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Thank you, Mireille! I am glad that it was nothing 10 years ago, but yes, you definitely need to get back in for another one!
xoxo
Shelbee
FancyBoy
Love the pink top on you! My mother had breast cancer. Preventative care is so critical— I hope we move more into this in the future.
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Thanks so much, Becky! I agree completely!
xoxo
Shelbee
Julie | This Main Line Life
Thanks for the reminder. I really need to have a mamogram done, it’s been a while. Thanks so much for the feature too.
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Thank you, Julie! Today is as good a day as any to call your doctor and get it scheduled! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Jennifer
I love the polka dots!!
Jennifer
Effortlessly Sophisticated
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Me, too, Jennifer! They are classic and whimsical! You can never go wrong. Thanks for stopping by. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
I had a breast cancer scare around twenty years ago. And scared I was! I always get checked regularly. I’ve lost a couple of good friends to this too and I think it’s a great idea to raise awareness Shelbee xx
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Laurie, I am so glad that yours was just a scare and nothing more! And honestly, I don’t know anyone who hasn’t been effected in some way by breast cancer…whether it is themselves, a family member, or a friend. It is so important to talk about it so that people are aware of the importance of screenings. I hope you have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Gail
Very important post Shelbee and good that you dispelled a few of the myths (“it’s painful” etc). You look great in a beret!
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Gail, thanks so much! I remember before I ever got my first mammogram, I would hear it often from women how painful the screening was. I was pleasantly shocked that it is not at all painful. So I don’t know where these women were getting screened!
xoxo
Shelbee
Anna Shirley
This gentle pink look is so cute, Shelbee. Thank you that you are spreading awareness about this. Prevention is everything.
Anna
http://www.glamadventure.com
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Thanks so much, Anna! I have a platform so I will use it to share information and spread awareness! It is a good thing, right? Have a great weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Ellibelle
Love the polka dotted top. Such a great look! Great post as well. I’m not quite 45 yet and haven’t had a Mammogram yet, so this post was definitely helpful. Good to hear that it doesn’t hurt! Thank you for sharing!
Ellibelle’s Corner
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Ellibelle, thanks so much! Yeah, the mammograms are so quick and easy! I also have to have colonoscopies every 5 years due to a family history of colon cancer. I have one coming in the Spring, so I may write a post about that whole process, too. That is definitely not as quick and easy as a mammogram but still so important! I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
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Shelbee
Jacqui Berry
Well done on this post, such wise words, well done Hun. We need it shared. Jacqui x
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Thanks so much, Jacqui! I hope you have a lovely weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick Weseman
Very nice. Looking very classy. Even males need to get screened for breast cancer as my doctor told me. Thanks for the wise words and I hope that you have a wonderful weekend.
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Thank you, Patrick! Men absolutely do need to be screened as well especially if they are high risk or symptomatic. Thanks for that reminder!
xoxo
Shelbee
lorena
An important message to get out there!
Information is power and anything detected on time can make a huge difference-
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Thanks so much, Lorena! It is so true! So I will keep using my platform to spread awareness.
xoxo
Shelbee
Liberty
A gift bag and flowers?! Who wouldn’t want that?! : )
Liberty @ B4andAfters.com
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I know! They always do it in October and that is my incentive to go! Thanks for stopping by today, Liberty. Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Shugunna Alexander
Thanks for all the information Shelbee, also really love the pink; especially the boots!!!
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Thanks so much, Shugunna! I hope you have a lovely weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Emma Peach
I love your pink and polka dot outfit Shelbee! Very cute beret. I haven’t been called for a mammogram yet, I’m not even sure what the age range is here in the UK. I’ll just wait until I get the letter! Hope you have a great weekend!
Emma xxx
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Thanks so much, Emma! You should check into the age for you. Early detection is key if there is a problem! We must always be our own best advocates! Have a great weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
jodie filogomo
I don’t always think we realize how blessed we are to have these preventative measures at our disposal!!
We all wore pink this week too!
XOXO
Jodie
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Jodie, I agree with you! And I am so grateful for modern medicine and preventative measures so I can live a good long healthy life. I have so much more I want to get done before I go! Thanks for stopping by. I hope you have an amazing weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Donna Walmsley
Good advice, Shelbee, as a woman still going through reconstruction following mastectomy last year I thoroughly encourage everyone to keep up with their screens!! Good idea about the non-fashion post! Thank you for the linkup, I look forward to them and appreciate the work that you put into them!
Donna 🧚🏻♀️❤️🐝
https://donnadoesdresses.com
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Donna, thanks so much for sharing your experience and your story to emphasize the importance of our annual breast screenings. I love hosting my link ups and I appreciate everyone who visits each week! Have a lovely weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
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Tamar Benjamin
I’ve had to get several ultrasounds and mammograms, but thank Gd I am just lumpy. So crucial to know your body!!
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Tamar, thank you for sharing your experience! And I am glad that you are just lumpy, too! And yes, knowing our own bodies is super important. I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Rosemary Davis
Mammograms are so important! Thanks for the reminder.
Really love your pink!
Thanks for the Link-up.
Rosemary
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Thanks so much, Rosemary! Just doing my part in keeping communication open and sharing important information. I hope you have an amazing weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lauren Renee Sparks
I love your pink and your message! My cancer would never have been detected on a self-exam. Probably not until it was too late. A mammogram helped me find mine at stage 1! laurensparks.net
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Lauren, thanks so much for sharing your story! I am so glad that you caught it early and can share your story to empower and inspire and motivate other women to stay on top of their screenings! I hope you have the most wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Darlene
Shelbee, this is such an important reminder. I did have my mammogram recently and I’m glad you did, too! I had to laugh at your “tedious positions” phrase. SO true! But as you say, it’s an important 20 minutes that really can save your life. Your outfit is super cute, too! You have so many great colors of boots and hats and you look good in pink, my friend
Happy weekend,
xx Darlene
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Darlene, thanks so much! I am glad that you had your screening done as well. I think it is so important for us all to support one another in our healthy journeys to prolong life and live well! And the funny thing about pink…I don’t think I owned a single pink item before I started blogging and now I realize it is a great color for me. Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Karren Haller
Hey Shelbee, I go every year now for mamo’s and while it is uncomfortable I wouldn’t miss it. I love all the pinky mauve outfits and your outfit is darling. I have shared a couple of recipes #63 and #64, easy to make and yummy.
I hope you have a wonderful weekend!
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Karren, thanks so much for sharing your experience and helping me spread awareness as well as letting people know that the screenings are not bad at all! I will definitely check out your recipe posts. I need lots of cooking inspiration these days. I have gotten way lazy in that department lately! I hope you have a wonderful weekend, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura Bambrick
Self exams and mammograms are so important! The mother of a family I babysat for as a teenager passed away from breast cancer a few years ago. When it’s my time I will never forget to go get checked! I really try to remember monthly self exams too. Thanks for the reminder!
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Laura, thanks for sharing your experience. I do believe that everyone has been effected by this disease in one way or another. We all know someone. I am happy to use my platform to spread awareness and share information. I hope you have a lovely weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
midlifeandbeyond
Preventative care is so critical – plus self examination – Thank you for the reminder.
Alison x
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Thank you for the support, Alison! Have a great weekend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Shops
I’ve been getting mammograms for years—I tested negative for the BRCA gene but I have family history on both sides and am high risk. So far I’ve only had to go back once for the in-depth mammogram, which was scary but thankfully not serious. It’s somewhat anxiety-inducing for me, but so necessary!
Cheryl Shops | http://www.cherylshops.net
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Cheryl, thanks so much for sharing your experience and emphasizing the importance of getting screened. I know it can be anxiety producing for some especially if there are concerns, but we are so much better equipped to handle any concerns if we have the knowledge! I hope you are having a great weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Melody Jacob
Thank so much for sharing this.
https://www.melodyjacob.com/2019/10/how-to-style-makeda-african-ankara.html
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Melody, thanks for stopping by! I hope your weekend is going well.
xoxo
Shelbee
Helen C.
This is, without a doubt, one of your most important posts! Thanks for reminding us all and what a good idea schedule it on October as it´s easier to remember!
I hope everything is great with you!
I am still pregnant and very stressed but what can you do?
🙂
I am sending you hugs from this corner of the planet,
xxx
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Helen, thank you so much! I am glad that you are getting along in the pregnancy. I hope you will find stress relief soon. When is that little sweetness due to arrive?
Hugs back to you, my friend!
xoxo
Shelbee
Leelo
This outfit looks absolutely adorable! Love it!
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Thanks so much, Leelo! Have a great day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Michelle
Completely agree regarding the importance of mammograms. November is the month I go.
Totally cute outfit! Pink is a wonderful color for you. I have really grown fond of empire waists. They look great on everyone. And for those who are a bit fluffy – like me – it hides the tummy.
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Michelle, thanks so much for stopping by! I do like an empire waist to hide the fluffiness in my middle as well. But I must be careful because some of them can make me look like there’s a baby in there…not just midlife belly fluff!
xoxo
Shelbee
Ruth Josey
I love that you dressed up to promote breast cancer awareness and what a darling look! The pink boots are just wonderful and I love your teddy coat and the beret. This is a great cause to present – thank you so much for sharing! And thank you for the link-up!
Ruth
https://voguefauxreal.com/2019/10/21/
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Ruth, thank you so much! Yeah, I was pretty determined to share a post on this topic! And of course, I had to wear pink!
xoxo
Shelbee
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Alicia OBrien
Thank you for this most important reminder. I usually have one every couple of years, I am sure I am due x
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You are welcome, Alicia! And thank you for stopping by and reading. I hope you are having a wonderful week!
xoxo
Shelbee
Mother of 3
I just went for my first ever screening last month and I completely agree that it was totally painless.
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Joanne, thanks so much for confirming the painless experience! Yay! I am so glad you went. I hope your results were all clear.
xoxo
Shelbee
Lisa Richardson
Love the blush booties, Shelbee. You look glamorous in this outfit. I’m pretty much militant about my mammograms.
XO
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Thanks so much, Lisa! I am so glad that so many women are diligent about getting their mammograms. It is so important!
xoxo
Shelbee
Claire
Great post and raising awareness Shelbee. I am 46 and not been offered one her in the UK yet but when I do I will go straight away. You might have guess by now from the clues I have been dropping on the blog but it was my Mum who went for a routine check about a month ago and found out she had breast cancer. The last 5 weeks have been tough but she has now had the cancer removed and started her recovery progress 🙁 xx
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Claire, thanks so much! I am so sorry to hear this about your mother, but I am so glad that it was caught and treated. I will be sending lots of healing thoughts and energy your way. Have the doctors not recommended you for a screening now that it has become part of your family history? When my mother was diagnosed with colon cancer, I started getting routine colonoscopies at the age of 31. And I now go every 5 years. I will be writing about that topic to raise awareness when I am due for my next screening which is this Spring.
xoxo
Shelbee
Mica
What a fun pink outfit, the polka dots are so cute! I agree, it’s so important to book screenings – and for any one of nay age to learn how to check for changes whenever they notice anything different. When I had my first boy I noticed some changes with my breasts and wasn’t sure if it was just breastfeeding related or something else – my sweet doctor was able to help me and it was luckily nothing to worry about. But it shows how people should be always aware of the help out there!
Thank you so much for joining the #weekdayWearLinkUp 🙂
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Mica, thanks so much for the lovely compliment and for sharing your experience. We definitely need to know our own bodies and be our own best advocates. We need to advocate for ourselves especially when it comes to our health for no one knows our bodies as well as we do. I hope your week is off to a great start!
xoxo
Shelbee
Joanne
Our state pushes for annual mammograms starting at age 35 or 40 but I tend to fight with my doctors and only go every 2 years for now. I’m not really in a high risk category and don’t like the idea of yearly breast x-rays starting too early as I personally think that that can’t be all that great for us health-wise either. Though I do have to say the procedure was super quick and painless when I went last year.
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Joanne, thanks for commenting. My doctor was recently pushing me to have it done this year and I usually opt for every other year as well. In fact, the lab advises only every other year if you have no concerns. So I disregarded the doctor and will go next year. I actually need to not disregard my doctor, but rather dismiss her completely and request a new one! But that’s an entirely different story!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lauren Renee Sparks
Thank you so much for using your platform to spread awareness about this. My cancer would never have been caught without regular screenings. And now I am having to follow up on suspicious findings again. Your prayers would be appreciated!
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Oh Lauren, thank you. It is my mission to use my space for all things good. I am so sorry to hear that you have recent suspicious findings. Sending lots of prayers and positive thoughts your way. Do keep me posted.
xoxo
Shelbee
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