Celebrate Life, Donate Blood & #SpreadTheKindness Link Up #64
I know that I have mentioned in previous posts that every Wednesday morning I have a standing coffee date with an amazing group of women at our local Panera. The attendees are different each week and we often have anywhere from 5-12 ladies who show up. It is a wonderful opportunity to gather together and find a lovely community of beautiful, empowering, and inspiring women right here in my little town. I have to send out a thank you to my wonderful friends, Lisa and Cathy (they are the sisters who were featured in my Forever Fierce campaign post), for inviting me and including me in this fabulous group.
*This is not a sponsored post. As always, all thoughts and opinions are entirely my own.
A few weeks ago at one of our coffee gatherings, I met one of the most inspiring women who exemplifies resilience, strength, empowerment, and selflessness and I just have to share her story with you as well as her mission. Her name is Joanne and she was diagnosed with leukemia in her late 40’s. I am happy to report that she is cancer free after receiving the necessary treatments. During her treatment, however, she did require and was the recipient of blood transfusions. As she told me her story, I knew immediately that I would be featuring her on my blog.
In our conversation, she recalled a moment when she was receiving her first blood transfusion. She told me as she was sitting there, she began thinking to herself, “My goodness, am I grateful that people donate blood.” She explained to me that it was something she never really thought about before…the importance of donating blood…until she needed blood. Suddenly, this seemingly mundane public service that certain people willingly perform took on a new life changing importance of the highest magnitude. As a result, Joanne will always remain grateful to people who donate blood. As Joanne was approaching her milestone 50th birthday last year, her husband asked if she would like anything special to celebrate the occasion. The only thing she could think to request was that he donate blood. That is all she wanted.
*Sweater: Women’s Ombre Eyelash Sweater – Xhilaration™ from Target.
Little did she know that her husband and friends took her request a step further. They surprised her by organizing a community wide blood drive with the goal of collecting 50 pints of blood for her 50th birthday. They fell just a few pints short of the goal, but Joanne was so overwhelmed with gratitude by this gesture that she has now taken the helm in organizing annual blood drives for her birthday. If you are local to the Watertown, New York area, you can support Joanne’s mission by donating blood to her “Celebrate Life” Spring Blood Drive, which will be held on April 4, 2018, from 12:00-5:00 p.m. at St. Anthony’s Gymnasium (850 Arsenal Street, Watertown, NY). If you are not local to the area, you can still donate blood at American Red Cross blood drives in your area. You never know whose life you could be saving. Can you think of better way to spread the kindness than that? So I encourage you all, if you don’t already, to go donate blood in honor of my new friend, Joanne.
*Booties: Charlotte Russe Metallic Heeled Belted Booties.
*I purposely chose this outfit to feature in this post because of my oxblood colored booties and scarf. The color burgundy or oxblood is representative of healing energy, fierce powers, and strength of character in standing up for causes that you believe in strongly. Burgundy symbolizes your warrior status in the toughest battles that you will fight. So for Joanne, I wore burgundy. She is a true warrior if ever I met one.
And now your favorite posts from last week.
Maggie of Thrift Shop Fashionista shared a very empowering post, It’s Only A (Made Up) Number. I love Maggie’s story and I love that she has embraced her journey with open arms. That is what it’s all about, after all, in my opinion. Plus I think Maggie looks fabulous for a woman of any age because she is true and genuine and real! Keep rocking, my friend.
Elizabeth of Natty Gal shared her post, Resort 2018 OOTD. I am so crushing on her Lily Pulitzer dress and her palazzo pants and halter tank outfit (you have to visit her post to see that outfit). Fabulous styling, my friend! I hope you had an amazing vacation!
Lisa of Coast to Coast shared her post, Is It a Dress or a Tunic? Well, Lisa, I have to say that I don’t care what you call it, it is fabulous! And I love the way you styled it with leggings. The color is magnificent and you look stunning.
Are you already a blood donor? If not, is this something you would consider after hearing a story like Joanne’s?
Celebrating life on the edge,
Shelbee
Linking up with these Fabulous Link Ups.
71 Comments
Kellyann
Great reminder to donate blood and this really hit home for me too. My brother has always donated blood, nine years ago he was diagnosed with a very rare and aggressive cancer called Burkitt’s Type Lymphoma. I am happy to report that he survived and is cancer free after very long and difficult treatments and almost 6 months in the hospital. The worst part now, according to him, is that he can no longer donate blood. I hope everyone who reads this donates if they are able – it really does save lives!
xo,
Kellyann
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Kellyann, thank you so, so much for sharing this comment! I have never donated blood before, mostly because it makes me queasy. But as I am hearing more and more stories of how beneficial it is, I am ready to face my fear and am going to attend Joanne’s birthday blood drive, for sure. I would almost feel like a hypocrite now if I didn’t! I am so glad that your brother is cancer free and living a healthy life. Have a wonderful day, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Laurie
This has got me thinking! I’m wondering what groups I could join in my area! I do enjoy a natter with a group of other women!
Laurie xx
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Laurie, thanks so much for stopping by! I always love when my posts get people thinking! I hope you find a wonderful group to join…or start your own!
xoxo
Shelbee
Tamar
Donating blood (and organs) is such a selfless and important thing!! Glad your friend is ok!!
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Tamar, thanks so much! I agree with you completely. Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
Shelbee
jacqui
Great post Shelbee, giving blood is something I’ve never done, but always wanted to do – next time they are coming I will donate for sure. Thanks for sharing this important message. x Jacqui Mummabstylish
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Jacqui, thanks so much! I have never given blood either mostly because it makes me a little queasy, but I am prepared to face that fear and give it a go as well.
xoxo
Shelbee
jacqui
Thanks for linking up with me on #chicandstylish Much appreciate your support. xx
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Of course, Jacqui! Thank you for always supporting me, too!
xoxo
Shelbee
Pam Greer
What a great story about your friend! How lucky she is and how lucky you are to have a group that meets like that every week!
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Thanks so much, Pam!
xoxo
Shelbee
Michele Morin
I’ve gotten out of the habit of donating blood. Thanks for this gentle push. It is so important.
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Michele, I am so glad that I could nudge you back to it! I have to start the habit myself!
xoxo
Shelbee
Rosemary Davis
Thanks Shelbee for a good reminder of a much-needed act of generosity!
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Rosemary, thanks for stopping by! Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Linda Cassidy
what a wonderful story, thanks for sharing that. I love when family and community get behind those they love and care about. So powerful and inspiring. Love the coffee club concept too. ( PS also crushing over the resort wear)
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Linda, thanks so much for stopping by! If ever you are down this way on Wednesday, you could join us for coffee and meet some amazing women!
xoxo
Shelbee
jodie filogomo
You find the most amazing women to showcase, Shelbee!!
We used to give blood all the time when my good friend was dying. Somehow we’ve gotten out of the habit, but this is such a great reminder that it’s so helpful!!!
XOXO
Jodie
http://www.jtouchofstyle.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Jodie, thank you so much! It is easy to find all the amazing women because they are quite literally everywhere around me! You just need to strike up the conversation and you would be surprised by the amazing stories you hear!
xoxo
Shelbee
Elizabeth Ashley Ramsey
I love the idea of 50 pints for turning 50! And am so glad that Joanne shared her story with you and that she is doing well now. Thank you so much for including me in your featured favorites! Happy 1st day of Spring!
Elizabeth | http://nattygal.com
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Elizabeth, thanks so much for always joining my party and for inspiring us! I just loved Joanne’s story so much that I had to share! I hope you are having a wonderful week, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Tucker
As always Shelbee this is a wonderful post. I think it would be so lovely to meet with friends like that. Love your look today too!
Cheryl
http://www.northwestmountainliving.com
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Cheryl, thanks so much as always for your lovely comments!
xoxo
Shelbee
Carrie @ Curly Crafty Mom
A standing coffee date every Wednesday morning sounds lovely, I wish I could find something like that around here! I am so glad she is cancer free and yes, blood donations are so, so important. My mom was in a serious car accident and needed blood. You just never know. I just love the pops of red with your scarf and booties!
Carrie
curlycraftymom.com
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Carrie, thanks so much for stopping by and sharing your mom’s story! I am so glad that she was able to receive the blood she needed. All the more reason for me to face my fear of donating and just do it! And yes, I look forward to the weekly coffee dates. It is such a feel good experience. I say you should go and set one up yourself and invite everyone you know! Have a fabulous week, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
wendee
beautiful photos
The Glossychic
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Thank you, Wendee! Have a great day!
xoxo
Shelbee
cherie
What a wonderful tradition, meeting with a group of women for coffee every week. Love that. And, I couldn’t agree more about donating blood, so important. Thank you for such an inspiring post Shelbee, you are such a thoughtful person. And, what about those gold heeled booties!?!?!?
Cherie
http://www.stylenudge.com
STYLE NUDGE
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Cherie, thanks so much! We have such a great time every week meeting for coffee! And I need to get myself to donating blood (it’s time to conquer my fears in an effort to help others)! I hope you are having a wonderful week!
xoxo
Shelbee
Maggie
I used to donate blood all the time in my workplace before I retired, but haven’t done so since. Thanks for the push — and for the mention in this post!
Maggie
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Maggie, thanks so much for reading and joining my link ups and inspiring us all with your wonderful posts! I am glad that a gentle nudge from me can push you back to donating. I need to jump on that donation train myself. Have a fabulous day, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Patrick Weseman
A great reminder to all of us, what we need to do for others. Thanks for the great post. Hope you have an amazing week and thanks for hosting.
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Thanks so much, Patrick! Donating blood is not only a great way to do for others, but it costs us nothing…well except for our blood! But we have lots of that.
xoxo
Shelbee
Amy Christensen
Giving blood really is an easy way to help others. I used to do it regularly, but haven’t in a while. Maybe it is time to get back at it! – Amy
http://stylingrannymama.com/
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Amy, thanks so much for reading! I have never donated blood because I get queasy. But I am ready to tackle that fear and give it a go!
xoxo
Shelbee
Suzy
What a wonderful post, Shelbee. I have given blood before but, admittedly it has been a while since I was there. I’m on the threshold of being anaemic so I do have to be careful – not that this is a reason not to go!
Hugs
Suzy xx
http://www.suzyturner.com
shelbeeontheedge@gmail.com
Suzy, thank you so much for stopping by! And yes, you must be careful when donating not to put yourself at risk as well. There are enough healthy people who can donate without risk! But I am grateful for the donations you have made in the past. Now I need to get myself over there and donate!
xoxo
Shelbee
Nancy
Oh what a beautiful story! I also know someone who needs blood every week. It is so important to donate!
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Nancy, thank you so much! It really is quite an important community service and such a great way to spread kindness.
xoxo
Shelbee
Liz
Those boots are just fantastic! I love how you styled them!
Liz
http://www.lizzieinlace.com
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Thanks so much, Liz!
xoxo
Shelbee
stephanie
love the boots!!!! So cute!
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Thanks so much, Stephanie!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura
Such a great post and good reminder about donating blood! Thanks for sharing!
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Laura, thank you so much for stopping by! I really appreciate it. Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
Shelbee
'I am every woman' - Margot
WOW what a story 🙂 What a fantastic group of people 🙂 . Thank you so much for visiting my blog 🙂 It was a very nice surprise to have read your comment, and a lovely one too. 🙂
I love your styling – these red accents are soo vibrant and symbolic, as you mentioned.
Thanks again – best wishes – kisses – Margot :)))
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Margot, thank you so much for stopping by! I think you are fabulous and will be visiting your blog often! You also have fabulous style, my friend! Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Lorena
Oh wow, what a luxury to have these coffee dates !
I thought it was so inspirational to have that blood drive for her birthday and then of her to make it a yearly event even more…. it has been a good reminder that it has been a few years since i last donated.
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Lorena, thanks so much for reading! I do love my coffee dates…in fact, I am getting ready soon to take my kids to school and head out to meet the girls! I am glad that I could give you a friendly reminder about donating! It is such a great community service to donate if you are able.
xoxo
Shelbee
Emma Peach
Such a great story! I have never donated blood – I’m not sure if I can because of the kidney condition, but I should really find out one way or the other. Love those boots Shelbee!
Emma xxx
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Thanks so much, Emma! I have never donated blood either because it makes me queasy. But I am going to look into my eligibility now. And if I am able to, I am going to face my fears and donate!
xoxo
Shelbee
Cheryl Shops
Thank you for sharing such a lovely story—I’m glad your friend is now cancer-free, and donating blood is always a helpful (and easy) thing to do to save lives!
Cheryl Shops | http://www.cherylshops.net
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Cheryl, thank you so much for reading and for the lovely comment! Have a wonderful day!
xoxo
Shelbee
Helen C.
Thank you for sharing Joanne’s story. Just to add a little piece of information, I couldn’t be accepted as a blood donor because of I have low blood pressure but I am in the list of possible donors for bone marrow transplants. I wish someday I can be f such help to somebody.
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Oh wow, Helen! That is amazing that you are willing to donate bone marrow. I am so proud to call you friend. I wonder if I am able to donate blood then with high blood pressure. I guess I will need to look into that! Thank you for sharing your story.
xoxo
Shelbee
Helen C.
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Marilee Gramith
It’s very inspiring that you find ways to share your appreciation and affection for the many women who are part of your life Shelbee. We can so easily relate to them because they are our stories and our friends stories too. You create a feeling of community because you indirecty honor us all!
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Jude, thank you so much for this comment! I cannot express enough gratitude for your support and friendship and the support and friendship of all of the amazing women in my life. Have a wonderful day, my friend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Liz
This is such a great reminder! And I love that you guys have your own little community. I’ll have to see if there’s anything like that in my area!
Liz
http://www.lizzieinlace.com
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Thank you, Liz! I always leave these coffee meet ups feeling so energized and empowered! If you don’t have one in your area, I encourage you to take the lead and start one! Mine began from two sisters who decided they needed some weekly feel good girl time! And now here we are months into it. Today we had about a dozen amazing ladies there. So much fun!
xoxo
Shelbee
Claire
What a lovely thing to do. I can just imagine your friend and how emotional it must have been when her Husband and everyone did this for her birthday. My Mum needed blood once and sometimes it does not cross your mind until someone closed needs help. Thanks for sharing over at The Wednesday Blog Hop 🙂
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Claire, thanks so much for sharing your experience! I agree, it is something that many of us don’t even consider until we are forced to consider it!
xoxo
Shelbee
Nailil
I love your boots Shelbee. They match perfectly with the scarf and a just the right amount of color to your look.
Xx, Nailil
http://www.thirtyminusone.com
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Nailil, thank you so much! I hope you have a fabulous week!
xoxo
Shelbee
Laura || Walking in Memphis in High Heels
I love your scarf and those boots! I remember donating blood for the first time and realizing how easy it is to help other people by doing something so simple!
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Laura, thanks so much! It really is such an easy way to help others. I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
xoxo
Shelbee
Annie Kate
My son does this, but I am ill and cannot. It’s a great way to help!
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Annie, thanks so much for stopping by! I cannot donate either, but I support the cause wholeheartedly. I am so glad that your son donates. It is so important.
xoxo
Shelbee
Selina
Love the outfit…especially the booties! Donating blood is so important. Hope your friend recovers well! Thanks for sharing!
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Selina, thank you so much! And yes, my friend is quite healthy now!
xoxo
Shelbee