Today is my wedding anniversary. Nine years ago, I made a commitment until death do us part (or until one of us changes our mind)…that is a joke between me and my husband. And I actually whispered those words to him during our vows. We laughed then and we still laugh about it now. In fact, the final words on the back cover of our wedding album say, “Forever. It’s a really long time.” And you know what, taking that pressure off things, making light of it while still taking it seriously, has made the road a much easier one. We take every day, every change, every mood, every thing…